‘people who have a different definition of arguing than i do are triggered and over emotional and not being rational’ YIKES.
Wtf? I did not and would never say that. Acknowledging that people in syscourse regularly interact while triggered and that syscourse is regularly triggering and acknowledging that many use the term arguing differently than I do are completely separate arguments. The former is something that will always need to be kept in mind in ALL interactions in syscourse as it can impact the best responses to keep things more calm when possible which as we said always our goal. And it has absolutely nothing to do with how rational a person is. Someone can act from a rational place while being triggered. Just as someone can have a different definition of arguing while not being triggered. Because those are separate things. They may overlap and impact each other at times and it is important to respond appropriately when they do but they should never be assumed to be inherently linked. Please stop taking my words in the worst possible faith.














