#sys4sing

Poly, sys4sys, and aripluric culture is the token singlet partner having a Google Doc to keep track of everybody and struggling so bad that everybody else has to have them just download Simply Plural so they doesn't explode from stress.

oh man so we mostly date other systems, have multiple partner systems even, it's usually preferable to us, we tend to click and connect better. (and we're very poly.) but we have our 1 (One) singlet boyfriend. he's so sweet. he's always been so good about our plurality, even with how unique our plurality is (we're monocon, have no memory gaps, very covert system tbh)...he's always been so sweet and respectful, we feel so safe with him, and comfortable with the fact that all of us feel differently for him, even with a lot of us having romantic feelings for him- there's 2k+ of us. a few of our older in headspace headmates view him in a more familial way for example. he's one of like, two singlets we've been interested in since we realized we were plural, and the only one we've dated since our partner we had when we were having our syscovery broke up with us (unrelated mostly to our plurality). and we're so glad we pursued him and have him in our life. he's just. Augh. Apollo we love you so muuch...(it's also ironic and funny to us that one of suns names, suns primary name, is the name of the deity we primarily worship, being pagan. we started that worship before we started dating him, and we often have to clarify "talking about deity Apollo not boyfriend Apollo" or vice versa...or the jokes of "of course you're dating a guy called Apollo"...)

dating as a system culture is " our partner " ( only the host is dating them )

˖ . ݁𝜗𝜚. ݁₊ And they called it . . Puppy love ~