some extra traits that aren't necessary to be labeled as a milotristanalex but certainly help:

painted nails (usually black polish)

ambiguous sexuality

does a less popular sport (tennis, diving, etc)

knows a lot about a certain topic but not in a hyperfixation way like in a nerd way

teenager

Q: can you explain *insert musical here*?

A: check my #moth explains a musical tag to see if I've already explained it please

Q: can you teach me about [insert anything about musical theater here]

A: I'd be happy to! I'm the resident musical theater mogul <3

Q: how old are you?

A: ask @elizabethvaughns

Q: are you really a moth?

A: ask @slaymi

Q: something something matt walsh something this or that whatever