Life seems to be a lot and a little about losing and gaining. I wonder if we only lose when we gain, or do we only gain when we lose. These two things seem inevitable. To lose feels like failing, but is it really? I mean, just because Iâm lost, does that make me a failure? Arenât we all looking for something? In essence, isnât everyone lost? Donât we all have to find ourselves? Doesnât that take time? Has everyone Iâve lost, left to find what I could not help them find? Have all the souls that have come and left this planet, found what they were looking for? Could it be that those that Iâve âlostâ, are my gain? Because by not having them Iâve had to make my self uncomfortable. Iâve done some soul searching, and I guess, Iâve gained more than I thought. Every single human that Iâve come in contact with has served a valuable purpose in my life. Humans come and go. Thatâs life. You lose some, but you always gain; if you really appreciate your loses, even when gone. Â