bru, give me dom!Shane headcanons pls
Long ass headcanon list with background, shyan and even shara, and all that nobody actually asked for, iâM SO SORRYâ under the cut:
Background
It all started when he was having a not strings attached relationship with a woman named Hannah back in college. She loved when he got dirty and possessive, and slowly asked for more until she was explaining to him about how she loved being a sub, and she thought he had potential for domming.
At first, he just wanted to try it out because it was fun to do shit with her, but he ended up liking it a lot.
Once she invited him to the bdsm club she often went to, he thought of trying other stuff to find out if he was comfortable as a dom or could switch, or prefered to be a sub himself. Since he only dommed her, he had the doubt if it was because he liked it or because she liked it.
Still, as they were together, he didnât try anything else and didnât went to the club alone ever.
Eventually, they went their separate ways but are always happy to see each other at the club when he goes. She also recommended him with people from another club at LA when Hannah heard he was moving after college.
They still see each other from time to time at club parties and so. She and her current husband are golden memebers of the club, and she always invites Shane to their parties even if he doesnât go.
College
Shane never really had a sub aside from Hannah during that time, mostly because he was busy studying and finding out what he liked.
Breaking his relationship with Hannah allowed him to have a few first of his own, like the first time he dared to go alone to the club. He stuck by the bar and agreed to fuck with another girl after talking so much with her, he actually thought nothing would happen.
After that, he went more often when he felt like he needed his mind somewhere else.
He tried a lot of kinds of dynamics as a sub, but realized he wasnât really into that. It hardly did something for him and he just kept disappointing the person he was with. His desire for pleasing and devoting his entire body to that person and their pleasure was not the kind that works better on a sub, it made him realize he was better suited to be a dom.
So, he tried a bunch of dynamics as a dom. He def doesnât like master/slaves dynamics, and he is so not into age play but isnât sure why he does likes calling his sub baby girl/boy, and can take being called daddy if fitting.
He had his first boyfriend during that time but didnât dare to bring up the idea of having a dynamic at first, the way it went down when he did made him believe maybe he shouldnât the next time.
When it happened, it also went not okay and so, Shane decided he would keep that to himself unless he dated someone in the community. Which he did, he had a boyfriend he met at the club in Illinois and it was all good.
It only lastet a few months, though, since he then moved to L.A. and both decided to break things off before someone could get hurt. They are friendly to each other, but Shane is not sure if he is even still in the community.
General
Shane always adopts his subâs safeword, commands and colors. Most of these are pretty standard so he finds it better that way.
Man, he is bad with dropping. He always knows what to do and how to do it, what to say and how to say it when it comes to his sub having a drop. But him? He is bad at it.
For a start, he never accepts he has one. Not sure if itâs pride or embarrassment, or just self-hate in the sense that he believes he shouldnât be having one in the first place. He is there to make his sub feel good, he shouldnât need comfort.
Eventually, with the right partner, he learned otherwise.
Shaneâs drops are bad. He gets angry and snaps easily, and he gets annoyed easily too. He can get hurtful without even noticing.
He likes to talk about the scenes in detail, but sure as hell enjoys when he is told to improvise. He is very good at that, which has bring him good experiences.
The kind of scenes he enjoys the most are the ones where he has his subâs body completely at his mercy. He loves kissing and sucking on skin, marking the person as his, having the space and chance to do them as he wishes and knows they enjoy the most.
While he is pretty much bisexual, Shane knows he kinda has a bit of a preference for guys. Yet, his best experiences in bdsm have always been with girlsâ until Ryan, thatâs it.
Coming to L.A. was such a change, he didnât visit the club Hannah recommended him during the first months. When he finally did, it was because he was too stressed and needed to get out now.
He hooked up with the same guy in there as he fit in BuzzFeed and met the people that would soon become his friends, included Ryan.
Not many people know this but most things he knows arenât from experience but reading. He doesnât wish to practice all the shit he knows, but he believes itâs good to be informed in case it comes in hand.
He is a kinky ass, dynamics aside. He does know he loves dirty talking, he has a thing for smaller people with big personalities that he can wreck in the best of ways, he gets off other peopleâs fear (not necessary at him, but if he can work a scene with such, thatâs fine), being called titles and shit, he loves to eat out peopleâ ass and pussy, he is all for it.
King of dirty talk.
Sara
He never thought he would have that with her. Never.
It happened because one day she asked him what was it about him getting hotter when she reacted to his dirty talk. He got nervous and ended up spilling too many things, finally after a long silene, he explained himself.
She seemed okay with that and that was it! But he noticed how she would let herself react so much more vocal and enthusiastic to his little instanses of dominance and dirty talk, it turned him on so much more, he wondered if it was just him going crazy.
Because he always wanted to have this with someone he loved. Shane always wondered how that would feel like, to be in love with his sub, want to worship them and please them with all he is, having that trust with the person that makes his days with the wave of their hand.
And then one day, as she was playfully nagging him in the kitchen as he finished cleaning up the dishes, she straight up puted and asked, âwhen are you fucking me like I know you want? Iâve been trying to put you in the mood for a month!â, she kept ramblind about how she had read little brats are a Thing and she thought he would like that, and as she kept talking about it, she didnât saw the way he took off his watch and rolled up the sleeves of his shirt before towering in front of her and just saying âturn aroundâ.
Poor, poor kitchen.
Their dynamic was never too hard and since it was almost a year into their relationship, it was deeper than any other Shane had before.Â
Sometimes, she knew more about one thing than Shane himself, Sara kept reading and watching videos, and whatnot about things that called her attention.Â
She would take these ideas to Shane later and ask if they could try and thing or two.
Lotsa dirty talk and oversensitivity.
They did A LOT of roleplay.
In fact, her favorite scene was one that lasted a week while on vacations. In it, she was Shaneâs stressed and thight boss, and he was the new guy trying his best to win her over.Â
Her character kept dragging him around, being mean and bossy until he realized what she needed and was able to take control for her.Â
It was Banging Town for two days as the great finale.
His was one she planned all on her own for his birthday.Â
She did a treasure hunting around all their favorite places in the city while texting him dirty pics of herself, the praize was her in the cutest sexy kitten lingerie/costume waiting for him on a fancy room of a fancy hotel where she would be his personal pleasure doll for the rest of the night and part of the morning.Â
Boy, that was good.
God, Shane felt like dying every time he had her body against his. She was so fucking small, he just ksjnfmdksmdmsdmf.
Once, he made her come just from dirty talking. Heâs very proud about it.
He took Sara to a party at the club, but even though they didnât have any problems around, she confessed to not be much into it, so they never went again. Shane didnât visit the club while with her, only that one time.
They never had a drop, but after they parted ways, Shane had a very bad one that ended in him telling someone about his practices.
Ryan
That someone was one very surprised, frustrated, amused and pining Ryan B*rgar*.
Shane hates the way Ryan found out.Â
When they first met, he had the biggest crush on him but knew nothing would come out of it. Ryan was with someone and many things were unspoken back then, hellâ he wasnât even sure they were going to be friends.Â
Ryan means so much to him, he truly hates the way things went when it comes to this theme.
He mourned his lost relationship mostly alone, but he always had this ray of sunshine following him around and asking shit. It annoyed him at times, but slowly made him realize he couldnât do this by himself, and thatâs how it actually began.
Shane has known Ryan is also a kinky ass, maybe even more than him, for a while.Â
He knows Ryan has a thing for dominant people, the first thing he thought of him was âthis dude is getting peggedâ and when he met Ryanâs ex, âoh, he IS getting peggedâ.Â
Never had the means to find out and heâs respectful enough to shut up when in time the man became his friend. But dude. He is all for this potential.
As he healed, Ryanâs curiosity had started to put ideas in his head. The man keeps asking stuff, and Shane knows he is making his own researches.Â
When one day he tells Shane he Did Something during his weekend and his heart aches, Shane realizes his feelings have come back.
With a fucking vengance, since he canât stop thinking about his friend and all the possibilities.
They get into a romantic relationship first, Shane is sure they are going fast but at the same time it feels right. It feels like this is mean to happen, itâs the natural thing for them, and he has never felt that with a partner before.
One day, Ryan accidentally sees Shaneâs invitation for Hannah and husbandâs party in Illinois. The invitation is very⊠odd. It was golden and it called Ryanâs attention right away. As Shane explains what it is, Ryan gets enough corage to tell him he would like to go.
It was a great experience for both, not to mention the months before the party were filled with fun explorations and more.
Shane felt like this helped them bond deeper, since Ryan seemed to like the experience and said he would like to visit the club Shane attends in L.A.
After that, Hannah makes sure to invite them every year.
They had so much fun chosing a safeword and code, Shane helping Ryan learn about colors, the kind of dynamics there are, his two little rules, planning their first attempt at a scene.Â
It was something pretty standard and soft compared with other shit Shane has done, but manâ it was them, this was Ryan, and it was perfect in his book.
He knows it probably wasnât, Ryan is constantly saying he regrets having used his safe word in the first time, while Shane keeps calling him out about it, saying how itâs important that he uses it every time he needs it.
Still, it was so goodâ and many others followed.
Ryan is different from all the other people Shane has been with and has practiced this with.Â
He is needy but strong, he is vocal and loves to be held, he loves being taken care of.Â
At the same time, he knows and is sure of what he wants, after a while he learned to ask for it and will willingly do as said in order to get it.Â
He loves being a good boy, and he will be bad when he needs it, and his consent is always so enthusiastic and happy, It overwhelmed Shane at first, but always in a good way.Â
Shane is so enamored with him, it feels like this will be the best of his life.
It costed Ryan a little to let go of a few things. Like the way he sometimes would drop because he refused aftercare or how whiny he would get when Shane didnât want to do so and so.Â
Mostly, Shane refuses to hurt him and sometimes it drives Ryan crazy because, âIâm not made of glass, Shaneâ. Eventually, they would learn how to balance this and find a middle ground where both can enjoy things.
Ryanâs favorite scenes are the ones that involve sensory deprivation, especially of his sight. And the ones involving fear. His fear kink is so prominent, Shane wonders how the FUCK he didnât realize before.
This, of course, gets them into very interesting territories and explorations at locations or at their hotel room after a fright night for Ryan.
They have a recurrent one in which Shane is an actual demon and it turns on Ryan so much, Shane is surprised to find out it turns him on like fucking hell.
He has gotten creative with this one, from just dialogues and some sort of backstory they did together, to make up and props, and costumes, and whatever is necessary to make the atmosphere in their room to be more demon-y-like.
They have the âKinky Roomâ, as Shane calls it, on their apartment when they move in together. Itâs just kinda the guest room, they just fill it with their toys and other stuff that helps with scenes when in The Mood.
Once in the mood, itâs almost impossible to get them out of it. Shane is better at putting a pause, and he always helps Ryan through it.
MAN, SUBSPACE. Shane is sure he has never seen something so beautiful as Ryan in subspace.
His aftercare when this happens is always the sweetest, Ryan canât hide how much he loves it.
Shane always asks him to describe to him how he feels when he comes back from the high.
It often leans to them having some sleep and waking up to make love. Soft and slow, really loving.
The first time Shane had a drop while with Ryan, the man was so ready for it, it had a bad effect on him. It made him feel like if Ryan thought he was such a bad dom, he would have a drop sooner or later.
Once he calmed down and talked to Ryan, Shane apologized and tried his best to understand his sub also takes care of him, because this is a mutual thing.
He doesnât drop often, can go actual years without one. But itâs a good thing he has such a prepared and sweet sub.
Ryanâs drop arenât often either, but they were at the beginning. Shane is so good at taking care of him, it made Ryan realize he wanted to be with this man for the rest of his life.
Like the saps they are, they have a recurrent fantasy in which they are different people for their anniversary. Ryan is a dentist that just realized he is into men and doesnât have many experience (lmao, college âcome in me, broâ frat Ryan has to laugh) and Shane is a lonely history professor with a kinky side.
They both know is the most vanilla shit in the world and YET, they love it so much, they are always excited about it as the day approaches.
It also always ends in them laughing in bed, an aftercare for the two of them that always has them in a good mood the next morning.
No matter how kinky they can get the night before, they always make sweet, sweet love in the morning the next day.
Punishments are such a thing with them because Ryan loves challenging Shane and sometimes he just wants to be treated hard. He loves the pain in a very different way from Shane.
Thereâs a lot of spanking to the point Ryanâs ass and thighs are bruised for days. The aftercare for these moments is always long and filled with a lot of love.Â
But Shaneâs punishment of choice is edging. In many, many ways. Pure torture as he has Ryan naked and tied to the bed or a chair, jerking him off to almost coming, then leaving without a single word. Blowing him, eating him out, fucking him, then leaving when he is almost there.Â
Cock rings, plugs, bullet vibrators, vibrators with remote controlersâ and Ryan loves all of it.
He would make Ryan walk with a vibrator up his ass for an entire week without letting him rub off one, he canât come, canât touch himself, and Shane is not touching himâ but he is touching Shane. Of course, those are the most amazing Sundays ever.Â
Sometimes Shane feels guilty, so Ryan always does his fucking best to remind him he wanted this and he is happy because of it, because Shane makes him happy.
Whipping is also a thing that happens, it drives Ryan crazy.
Lotsa marking and possessiveness during sex. Shane gets off so much on the idea that Ryan is his and he is Ryanâs, itâs a blessing Ryan feels the same way and is often begging to be his.
The way Ryan begs driver Shane crazy.
He would do anything for Ryan, so having him wanting to give hismelf like this, wanting Shane to have him, take care of him, love him whole and as he deserves? The Dream.
Shane is constantly calling Ryan sweet names. His favorites are baby, sweetheart and angel.Â
Ryan is his âgorgeous angelâ, and it sometimes play so good with their demon fantasy.
Once Ryan confesed he loved being called sweet names by Shane, he decided he would never stop.
Sometimes he would call him baby boy and prince.
When he calls Ryan âlittle guyâ or âlittle princeâ, the man always reacts by moaning louder or melting against his chest, itâs amazing.
Ryan always refers to him as âsirâ and by his name during scenes. Sometimes he uses âMr. Madejâ and when fitting, daddy.
The daddy kink thing was something that just happened.
When they talked about it, they ended up laughing so much, they realized it wasnât really an issue.
None is into age play, though. Ryan just likes being called sweet things and taken care of, it just slips out of him.
When he is way too turned on, he switches from english to spanish, and spanish to english. So Shane is either called daddy or papi, and he loves both.
Doesnât matter if they get old and rusty, being connected through this, loving each other like this, trusting each other like they do will always be an important and loving aspect of their relationship for both of them.
