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Compromise!!!! . . It’s difficult to compromise, it’s not easy to give up on your dreams or not be able to live your life they way you are entitled to. People don’t do it willingly, they are caught in situations sometimes unknowingly or out of compassion. It’s usually the narcissistic who is having a field day. Compassion also plays a very important role, you are taken advantage of almost every day. You compromise for your children or for financial reasons or if your insecurities are high. The best way to get out of the situation is to realise that you are compromising, whether you like it or not that is the second step. Protect your children that is paramount and the most important lesson here analyse how you can be financially independent. Emotional independence can be developed with time, work on your self and analyse which areas your are dependent on. . . Craving for more winter sun as it plays peekaboo... . . #lipstick_in_the_city #thinking #compromise #thoughts #wrapdress #styleover40 #stylingwithanu #earthytones #wintersun #fashionblogger #indianfashionblogger #indianfashion #delhigram #delhiblogger #delhidiaries #delhifashionblogger #delhifashion #happy #midweek #lifestyleblogger (at Unplugged Courtyard)

Compromise!!!! . . The fastest emotion to travel is fear... it has its own smell, it cripples your thought process. The moment your opponent senses it, half the battle for him is won.The weakest outcome of this emotion is compromise. Sometimes its tough to hide your fear, overcoming it is a difficult possibility.The only way to escape is to train your mind, first and foremost let your opponent think that you are weak, it will give you enough time and energy to plan, next is to emotionally weaken the person. If you think that by compromising initial peace can be obtained, do it. Not every relationship is war, but sometimes by making wrong choices you are caught in difficult situations. Remember you are not weak if you compromise. . . These earthy tones in winter can lift your mood from mundane to classy. There is a lot of drama in these colours wear them in winters and see the drama unfold... . . #lipstick_in_the_city #styleover40 #stylingwithanu #fashionblogger #indianfashionblogger #delhifashionblogger #delhigram #delhigirl #delhiblogger #delhidiaries #earthytones #wrapdress #wintersun #compromise #love #relationshipgoals #karma #fitmom (at Unplugged Courtyard)

मोहब्बत . होश खो बैठो तो माने, इनकार न करो तो माने, . देखो तो इम्तिहान लेकर, या हम हारे या तुम . झुकी झुकी नज़र का वास्ता, उलझे जसबात का वास्तव, . आज़मा के देखो, या हम हारे या तुम.. . . It’s difficult for people to accept that probably the person might not like you to be passionately in love with you, we value ourselves so much so that it’s beyond us to accept the fact love has to be equal. In most cultures men suffer from this and then begins the relentless journey of stalking, trying, imploring, requesting... till the person accepts. This is usually the pitfall of unrequited love, we have exalted this to level of clamming what is rightfully not ours. Social media makes it easy to glorify unrequited love . If the person says no it means no, we deny this right to the person only because of our self worth. Women usually fall prey to this, most of our cinema, and other art forms glorify unrequited love, to the extent that eventually women give in . Such relationships lose value once the person has achieved his prized possession. Remember love has to be on equal and respectable grounds... . . It’s tough giving shots in crowded locations in Delhi, I sometimes wonder our women should relentlessly claim public places and be in such crowded places to the extent that men become comfortable in our presence only then the desire to see more, or touch more, or feel more.. will be weaned . . . Quilted skirts to my rescue to ward off and kind of negativity... . .MUA:- @bindusavita 📷 @shrey_saxena . . . #lipstick_in_the_city #fashion #style #instagood #love #photooftheday #beautiful #ootd #delhigirl #cute #girl #instadaily #model #instafashion #picoftheday #fashionblogger #photography #happy #me #beauty #makeup #amazing #shoes #outfit #dress #delhiblogger #delhidiaries #indianfashionblogger #quiltedskirt #colour #wintersun #stylingwithanu # (at Cannaught Place, New Delhi)

I think all of us go through this, u never have anything to wear and if I have to go out then God save me, when I come home it’s usually to a pile of clothes 😂😂I can’t see myself changing in the next probably 20 years, that is if I live that long... anyways you guys have a smashing weekend, while I rummage through my wardrobe to find something decent to wear 😎 . . . #lipstick_in_the_city #wardrobe #delhiblogger #stylingwithanu #delhigirl #delhidiaries #nothingtowear #fridaymood #weekend

Success!!! I gave up on small fights, I gave up on people who gossiped about me, I gave up defending myself, I gave up on cheating relationships, I gave up on perceptions, I gave up on expectations,I gave up fights for those who had nothing else to fight for, instead I fought for my vision, dreams, destiny.... I was successful that day... Not all fights are worth fighting, walk away when such fights threaten your success, chose wisely who your opponent is. Such fights are silly interferences in the larger picture... so as the year fades by I wish all of you that you get a lot of opportunities to fight for your dreams... . . There are little details in your attire which speak of understated charm and elegance look to achieve that. Again fascinated by the intricate #weaving of #indian #craftsmen from #benaras. So dearies whenever in India be sure to take one home.. . . #lipstick_in_the_city #stylingwithanu #handloom #weavesofindia #handcrafted #handcraftedluxury #sustainbalefashion #notmadeinafactory #madebyhand #indianweaves #sareenotsorry #sareelove #sareestyle #indianfashionblogger #indianblogger #delhidiaries #delhibloggers #indiangirl #indianphotography #madeinindia #indianvogue #styleinspiration #inspo #insta #instagram #soi @indianstreetfashion @indian.photography @photographers_of_india (at The Hungry Monkey)

Fulfillment!!! . Come let me love you my darling!! . Come let me live with you my darling!! . Come let me be you my darling! . Come let me ask for nothing my darling!!! . Come let me take you home my darling!! . Come let me come back for you again and again my darling!!! . . This poignant cry for love each one us crave for, the desire to be cherished and admired, but first are we ready to give the same. Do we have the desire to fulfill needs of others. This is what makes you different from others, this is why people would want to be you. Each one of us looking for that eloquent love and in our quest we forget to give the same,to be lost in fulfilling what your lover wants.... As this year bids adieu,think have I loved without judging or negating all faults or just loving the person as a whole for what the person is... . . This saree makes me love her without any prejudices, completely and totally she serenades me and makes sure sure I am hers forever. This is timeless #benarasi form #India famous for their intricate #brocade #weaves take her home while you can... . . MUA : @amritashergillofficial 📷: @theshuttersyncstudio . . #lipstick_in_the_city #portboxindia #weavesofindia #weavesofindia #weavesofinstagram #sustainablefashion #handloom #handloomsaree #sareenotsorry #sareelove #iwearhandloom #madebyhand #stylingwithanu #notmadeinfactory #delhidiaries #delhibloggers #delhi #ig_delhi #indianblogger #indiangirl #indianfashionblogger ##lookbook @vsco @plixxo @photographicalgoals @photographers_of_india @india.clicks (at The Hungry Monkey)

Honour yourself for you have loved, . Honour yourself for you have survived, . Honour yourself for you have conquered fear, . Honour yourself for you have lived, . Honour yourself for celebrating life.... . If you value yourself, you attract exactly that, as the year fades by this is what I wish for all of you. Accept what you are and love yourself for the courage that you have. You shortchange yourself for making others happy, thinking that this is what the your journey is all about,but you will tire yourself in this journey. So with this fading year promise to respect yourself deeply and committedly. . . Now the most important part here is to wear red at 40, women you can wear red but keep these in mind.. . . Choose the right shade, wear either undertones of gold or maroon. . Wear nude footwear, I know it’s Christmas but we already have a lot around. . For God sake keep some Jwellery for later, we know you have lots but seriously we’ll see them later. . The trick to wearing great clothes is to know your assets well, flaunt them and chose clothes as per them strictly. . After 40 keep make up should be understated do not forget to highlight your eyebrows,( we are losing them remember) cheekbones(everything is heading southwards) . Rest keep it classy keep it simple keep loving yourself and live eternally ❤️❤️ . . Merry Christmas to all my peeps loads of love... . MUA :- @amritashergillofficial 📷:- @theshuttersyncstudio . #lipstick_in_the_city #indiangirl #indianwomen #delhidiaries #delhibloggers #ig_delhi #influencer #stylingwithanu #fashion #fashionaddict #indianfashionblogger #potd #ootd #outfitoftheday #stylebyme #trending #shopoholic #weekend #christmas2017 #red #potrait #indianphotography #portraitpage #portboxindia #pursuitofportraits

Parinday!!! Yellow in all its splendour @unnatisilks . . . Usne kaha muskura kar... ruk jao... . Khawihishow ke par kuch aur bole, . Khwabon ke parindon ne dastak di... . Ab lautna munasib nahin.... . . Even if some times you need to fly away there will always be place you would want to come back, it can never be yours but you want it to be.we are wanderers in our thoughts, action, minds but always have a belonging. Sometimes we wander to run away, but the closer you are to self, the lesser you need to run away. Find a place that is yours, create an identity, a sense of belonging that is truly yours... . . I for once completely identify with this beautiful linen saree... . . #lipstick_in_the_city #handloom #sareenotsorry #unnatisilks #delhidiaries #delhibloggers #indianblogger #iwearhandloom #sustainablefashion #slowfashion #ethicalfashion #notmadeinfactory #madebyhand #personalstyle #fashionblogger #indiavogue #artofslowliving #indianphotography #dfordelhi #soi #sareelove #stylingwithanu