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Part 6 of my Studyblr University Orientation Week. 

I see a lot of people on studyblr talking about dealing with stress and anxiety over grades and perfectionism, but not a lot of discussion of being mentally ill and in university/college. So if you’re looking for stress reduction stuff, this post is not for you. This is for my mentally ill peeps. 

I just want to preface this with a little disclaimer. This is based on my own experience. I have depression, anxiety, ADD and OCD. I don’t know everything. I still have a lot of trouble coping, particularly with the last two as they were only recently diagnosed. This is just meant to be a few useful tips that might help a little bit. 

Go see a therapist. Even if you think you’re doing okay, it’s still good to have that support system there if you need it. Your therapist can also give you coping mechanisms that are tailored to your specific needs. They may also suggest you go on medication or refer you to a doctor who can prescribe it. 

If you are taking medication, set a reminder on your phone so that you take it at the same time every day. 

Set about sixteen alarms in the morning, starting half an hour before you want to wake up and spread about five to ten minutes apart. If you’re anything like me and have a lot of trouble getting to sleep, you probably have a lot of trouble getting up in the morning. This technique is a lifesaver. Also change up the alarm ~once a month. I find that my body gets used to it after a while and I just sleep right through it. 

Register with your school’s disability services. Yes, your mental illness is a disability. They’ll be able to help with accommodations (this could be anything from extra time on exams to extensions on your assignments). 

If you think that you might be handing in a paper late because depression is kicking your ass, message your professor at least a week in advance. If you tell them two days before, they’re not going to care. And if you end up not needing the extension, that’s okay. It’s better for it to be there if you need it. 

Headphones. Everywhere. People are stupid and loud and it’s overwhelming as fuck. Wear them right up until the prof starts lecturing. Do NOT wear them during the lecture though, your prof will hate you - though you may be able to discuss it with your prof the first week. idk, maybe you have cool profs who get it. 

Make a friend in your class that you can get notes from in case you can’t get out of bed. I mean this is good for anyone in case of illness in general, but yeah. Depression. Woohoo. 

It’s okay if you need to take a lighter course load because of your mental health. Loads of people do it. 

Related: It’s okay if you take 5+ years to complete your degree. You’ll get there. 

AD(H)D friends who stim: That’s super great and you totally should. But please do not leg bounce when you’re at a desk that has all the chairs connected to it. You will shake everybody’s seat and distract them. I get the urge to leg bounce (fuck, I’m leg bouncing rn) but please try a different stim if you could. Or bounce gently. Just no earthquakes (no joke, I literally thought it was an earthquake once and was super confused why no one else was panicking. i learned nothing that day, I was so distracted). 

Fidget toys are the best things ever and you can use them in lecture (provided they don’t make too much noise because your prof might yell at you for that). 

Bathrooms are your new best friend for panic attacks. Hide in a stall and take a few deep breaths to calm down. There’s a lot less noise there and you’re less likely to be disturbed than if you go to a stairwell. 

Breathe in for 5, hold for 5, out for 7. 

5-4-3-2-1: Find five things in the room that are blue. Four things that are yellow. Three that are pink. Two that are purple. One that is green. You can substitute this with any colours you like. You can also do ones like “think of five things that start with f (and so on)” or “five tv shows that you like, four books, etc.” if you’re somewhere without a lot of colours (or in your handy bathroom stall). Repeat with new criteria or new answers until calm. 

If you’ve been crying and don’t want people to know: grab some paper towels, run some cold water on them. Wipe your eyes with them. Pat your cheeks with them. It makes less of a mess than splashing your face will and I find that it helps me a lot more. 

Schedule the shit out of your life. You won’t forget important meetings or things like eating dinner (whoops). 

Make sure that you give yourself plenty of breaks during the day. Gotta conserve that energy, yo. 

Find out when the library’s quietest and grab your books then. Same deal with the bookstore at the beginning of the year and buying your books. Please, the bookstore is scary when it’s busy. Save yourself. 

Frozen dinners are cheap, easy to make, and require next to no energy. Same with cereal, ramen, and most pasta. And egg sandwiches (two eggs, hot sauce, and mayonnaise. Best thing ever.). 

Great questions to ask the people who sit next to you in class: What’s your name (preface this with “Hi, I’m *blank*”)? What are you studying? Where are you from? How are you liking the class? 

If you’re having trouble getting started, try for ten minutes. You may find that it’s easy to keep going after that. Or maybe you’ll need to stop but at least you’ll have gotten ten minutes of work in. 

Part 4 of my Studyblr University Orientation Week! 

If you live off campus, then you’ll most likely have a commute of 15+ minutes (sometimes as long as an hour) to get to school. Here are a few tips to help make this an easy, potentially even enjoyable, part of your day rather than a flaming hell stick. 

I know that it’s a common piece of advice in the studyblr community to study during your commute, but I’m here to tell you that’s bullshit. Unless you have an hour long commute, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t take this time to relax a little. It’s better for your mental health if you aren’t using every conceivable moment studying. 

Like I said in my last post, it’s important to know where you’re going. Know what stop to get on at (make sure you’re on the right side of the street), what bus you grab, what stop to get off at. Memorize that shit. 

If you’re driving, know your turns by heart. Know when to change lines so that you’re over in time. Being late for your first day of class because you missed your turn won’t be a fun feeling. 

If you’re walking, get a good feel for how long it’ll take you. Everyone has a different pace and Google Maps’ estimate may not always be correct (it also may not account for closed sidewalks). 

If you know for certain that you’ll get a seat on the bus, bring a book. You’ll be amazed by how little time you have for reading for pleasure now that you’re in uni (as well as how little you want to read before bed after spending all evening reading). This is a good time to get through some of your tbr. 

A lot of the time though, you won’t know for certain if you’ll get a seat or you know that you’ll definitely be standing for at least part of your journey. In these cases (and if you’re sitting the entire time too) I strongly recommend you bring your iPod and either listen to music or podcasts the entire time. Audio dramas are great because they’re a nice little break from the world. 

Have your money/bus pass ready when the bus pulls up. 

Don’t sit in the priority seating unless you’ve got a disability. 

Don’t yell at people who sit in the priority seating and don’t “look” disabled. A lot of disabilities are invisible. 

If you know that you’ll only be on the bus for a few stops and it’ll be busy, stand or sit near the exit. Otherwise you’ll be rushing to push through people to get out the door before it closes. 

Please keep your voice down. The bus is noisy enough, we don’t need you screaming about your sex life too. 

If you must bring your upright bass on a crowded bus, please be careful with it. Don’t hit people in the shins with it. Or the knees. I have weak knees, please be gentle. 

As a rule thumb, be aware of your bag(s). Don’t turn quickly and domino half the bus. 

Put your bag in your lap or on the floor when the bus is crowded. Please.

If someone touches your ass or puts their hand on your thigh, look them square in the eye and yell/say loudly “take your hand off me.” It will get people’s attention and they’ll do it. 

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My second attempt at a bujo spread! Featuring cross outs of club names 😉