#studsband

Why is every fine ass Black studsband of mine in BROOKLYN?! I hate Brooklyn! 😤

L: I want to be a stay at home stud.

E: Why the fuck would you want to do that?

L: less pressure

E: Dafuq you mean less pressure. You want to be lazy.

L: I would not be lazy. It's not like i won't have shit to do. I'm just saying if it was an option I would take it. Odds are we will both work but if she was like baby I can take care of us I would be crazy to say no.

E: NO you would be crazy ... you won't have shit for yourself.

L: Well then why the fuck would be married. I'm sorry but I'm willing to marry someone then we will both agree that we are ONE.

E: Nobody believes that shit.

L: Well I'm glad I'm not marrying nobody because somebody will believe.

E: That was stupid.

L: I know but I pressed enter before I could stop myself.

L: you know with technology today you would think there would be a cancel option by now... especially if the person hasn't read it.

E: True.

L: Look anyway I know people look down on housewives or what ever... real housewives ... not REAL HOUSEWIVES of random as city. smh

E: Pretty sure people look down on both.

L: true.... anywho ... I think that if you can find a partner that you love and trust completely then what's wrong with having that kind of partnership. I mean really in the end if either of you don't do what you should you both get fucked.

E: how! the one making money ain't got no problems

L: Look lets say me and you are married.

E: dafuq nigga no

L: Too bad.... we married. You work. The money goes to paying bills. Now lets say as your wife I don't keep my end up and the house is fucked. Guess who get's evicted b/c we got little friends with whiskers and antennas.

E: That's nasty.

L: Don't act like you don't know people.

E: Whateva it's still stupid. You both get fucked if the other doesn't do shit. No work = no food = no shelter. So why not you both just work like everybody else.

L: That's not the point of this damn discussion. We both agree that both partners working makes since. What I'm trying to prove is that house/work relationships are beautiful... if by choice... I'm not saying you should make anyone do it i'm just saying if you choose to then two snaps.

E: Fine.

L: Thank You.

L: If I could have someone in my life that I love and trust enough to take care of me and the things I have worked hard for then I would be very lucky.

E: Well that sounds like you would want to be the working wife and not the house wife.

L: No her job would provide me with food and shelter (take care of me) and I would have the house looking like and interior designers wet dream. That shit takes time. My blood sweat and tears go into painting, hanging, arranging, cleaning, dusting, steaming...fuck if she wants to live in a hovel she can find a basic bitch.... Me keeping the house pristine helps keep it's worth so when it's time to sell we gets a return on our investment... TEAM WORK BITCH.

E: You stupid.