#stbtherapy

1. What are the everyday things you both do to show you care about each other? I feel like tolerating each other's friends is a BIG one...He folds the laundry, because he knows that I hate it. I make sure that the coffeemaker is on first thing in the morning. He's really big on smacking me on the ass and whistling when I get out of bed, lately. We flirt with each other like idiots....That's probably my favorite, actually.

2. Do you follow each other’s blogs/twitter/instagram? I follow everything of Seb's. He refuses to follow my Instagram, because it's apparently "what hipsters look at to get off". I think he's just jealous that he's not in all of my pictures.

3. Is there a favourite place that you both frequently go to together? In Boston, there's this coffee shop called "Bean There, Bun That" that was close to the house. We'd go there to get some quiet.

4. What TV shows do you like to watch together? I make Seb sit through GBBO and reruns of The Nanny, he makes me sit through The First 48 and Homeland. We both agree on Classic MST3K and Stephen Colbert.

5. How do you relax together? I like it when we make dinner together. Seb's kind of... inexperienced in the kitchen, but he's trying, and it's adorable.

6. What sleep positions do you tend to sleep together in? We used to spoon, but a guy can only take a knee to the groin so many times...We mostly just sleep with one of us on our back and the other one sprawled on top of them.

7. Do you borrow each other’s clothes or other items? I borrow his all the time, but I'm pretty sure he only borrows mine unintentionally. It's nice, though.

8. Do you ever share the bathroom together? It's one of those things where we only recently really needed to start sharing. We went from basically having a thousand bathrooms to choose from and schedules that meant Seb had to be ready before I did, to one bathroom and basically the exact same schedule. Getting ready in the mornings is a very precise dance, now.

9. How do you both keep in touch when you’re away from each other? Texting, and messaging, mainly. Granted our "away from each other" isn't really that much of a distance, right now. If I miss him that much, he's three hallways and a staircase away.

10. Do you share secrets between each other? Yeah. Unless someone specifically tells me not to tell Sebastian, it's a safe bet that I've told him. Granted, I may not tell him immediately, but if it comes up in conversation, I won't try and avoid saying something.