Redeeming âFishsticks,â Part 1
So, I know that âMarried with Fishsticksâ is not on many peopleâs Top XWP episode lists. In fact, it is regularly cited as one of, if not the, worst episode(s) of the show altogether. Me, I can draw profound meaning from even the tiniest details, as Iâm sure you know by now if youâve read my other theories. So, I thought Iâd try to redeem this thing. đ Here goesâŚ
Remember how in my theory âSoul Orbits,â I found it very interesting that the same actors played Borias/Khrafstar and Meridian/Satrina? Sure, the XenaVerse has many dopplegangers running around and re-uses many actors, but I thought that the same people being used in those specific roles had deeper significance.Â
Believe it or not, I find Aphrodite and Discordâs presence in this episode telling as well. In my head-canon and fics, the goddess of love secretly took care of the bard all through The Rift Arc and beyond, but Gabrielle didnât learn about that until after the show ends. Thereâs also that small matter of soon GIVING UP HER ENTIRE FAMILY for our favorite bard that Aphrodite will do, but I digress. Suffice it to say that she counts herself as a friend of Gabrielleâs while Gabrielle isnât yet sure of the goddessâs motives at this point of the show.
Too, almost no one else seems to remember this, but Discord was in âThe Deliverer.â Sheâs the one who was most concerned with Dahakâs temple and wanting it destroyed. Ares listening to Discord and Xena listening to Ares could have saved Gabrielle a lot of heartache, but again, Gabrielle never knew about that. Or, didnât know until much later, since she is the one who wrote the scrolls which became scripts for the episodes.Â
So, Aphrodite and Discord were friends to Gabrielle who had ulterior motives. Of course, their sniping that she witnessed and then got caught between played into a part in her fantasy world too.
Hagar represented the worst in Khrafstar, Joxer, and Xena, along with the life that had been planned for Gabrielle before âSins of the Pastâ ever started. I think that the second version of Perdicas was a sweet guy and so not directly correlated with Hagar. (More on this later.*) But the life that Gabrielle would have been expected to live with her betrothedâendlessly, thanklessly cooking, cleaning, bearing him a bunch of childrenâthatâs what Crustacea had but fled and Gabrielle got roped into⌠kinda like her marrying Perdicas.
Gabrielle was more or less okay with her housewife life, as long as she drank the Kool-Aid of Hagarâs memory-eraser, just like she drank the Kool-Aid of Dahakâs cult. This is where Hagar is like Khrafstar; he duped the bard with manipulation disguised as goodness, which could have led her to the similar destruction of her soul.
But in her dream world, Gabrielle stopped short of going through with both those mistakes.
Itâs interesting, too, though, because except for that third expectation of child-bearing, she got that kind of life with Xena. How many times did we watch Gabrielle resent doing all the menial tasks and not getting credit for her contribution? Off the top of my head, âA Day in the Life,â âFins, Femmes, and Gems,â and âIf the Shoe Fitsâ come to mind. But after Gabrielle confronts Hagar about his treatment of her, he starts to change, just like Xena did. He even echoes a lot of Xenaâs sentiments to Gabrielle after âreforming.â
*If you didnât know/notice, then the first Perdicas actor too was in âThe Deliverer,â playing the man who captured Gabrielle and later told her that her legs were to be broken. So, maybe thereâs something more to that casting and the Hagar-Perdicas connection too. Hmm... You guys can figure out that part, if you wanna. Iâm too tired and need to move on to the main point of this theory/analysis. Xâ)