#sst asks

Favourite way to make a woman orgasm…. I guess that’s a tie between using my mouth on her vagina/clit (and nearby areas), and rubbing her clit with my fingers while having (penis in vagina) sex. Both allow me to watch and read her reactions so I can find what gets her to climax. Nothing beats watching that progress and finally the explosion in the end. 👍🏾👍🏾

Favourite way for me to climax… There’s honestly nothing that feels better than orgasming inside someone you really connect with and are attracted to. Vaginally that is. ☺️

Thanks for the question. Hope my followers aren’t freaked out by the graphic descriptions lol.

There’s a few ways to interpret this lol…

I have had sex in actual dirt, mud and actual sand on the beach, which are all by definition DIRTY. Lmao!

Personally, i’d say that of the three options, mud is by far my reccomendation. It can be sexy under the right circumstances, mostly because of the gooey consistency of the mud… Spreading it can be fun and sensual. In my case, it was raining (thus the mud) so that added to the ambiance as well at the time 😉

The least “clean” place was at this chick's apartment wayyyy back in the day. Her pad was a messsss… Not smelly or like health hazard dirty, but definitely in need of a serious deep cleaning at the time lol. Thankfully I was tipsy and horny enough that evening to not really care that much, and it was more her living space and kitchen that were grimey, but her bedroom (although littered with clean laundry) was in better shape and we were in there most of the time lol.

Finally, the naughtiest (and thus “dirty”) place I can recall offhand was the time my ex/gf and I had sex while her parents were in the same room watching tv lmao!

We had been making out in her family’s living room under the guise of “watching tv” (which was very thrilling for us in those teen years) and her parents came into the room suddenly…

Luckily for us we had taken the precaution of covering ourselves with a blanket while she rode me, so when they walked in, I guess it just looked like we were being the cute couple and I was cuddling her on my lap under a blanket lol.

Her parents sat nearby and watched tv and she continud grinding slowly with me inside her. Eventually I climaxed and she did too…

We had to wait till her parents went to bed to be able to clean up and move though lmfao!

Soooo those would be my “dirtiest” sex scenes 😁

This is a tad vanilla (shocking coming from me, I know lol) but honestly, the bedroom - and preferably in bed - is easily my favourite place to have sex.

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the thrill of having sex and making out in many more risqué places, and i'm always down for that. But being able to take my time and really go at it in the privacy and comfort of my own bedroom is really awesome.

Also beds are highly underrated when it comes to sex IMHO. Comfy and multi-purpose as well. The range of positions possible with one partner on or off the bed, both on, using the bed to prop up a partner, bracing against the bedhead or foot of the bed... I'm not talking about bland missionary position canoodling here lol.

So yeah. My bedroom in my bed is def my fave. Random public places would be a very close second lol.

Hmmm… I know I would like to still be sexual and not just a grumpy old guy lol. But at the same time I definitely don’t want to be a “dirty old man” who’s inappropriately sexual/flirty lol.

Tbh I think i’ll be just as sexual in my mind as I am now but perhaps my body will be a tad less sex driven. Given how high my sex drive has been my whole life, I don’t think that would actually be all that bad lol.

Deal breakers of the sexual kind? Hygiene (or lack thereof) could be a deal breaker.

Main deal breaker sexually would be if they’re Asexual or not that into sex/intimacy because I have always had a really high sex drive. So if they’re not into sex, then we’re probably not gonna be compatible.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m open to working around illness, temporary setback, moods etc. But just like no sex for days, weeks, months for no reason in particular… Nah.

Limits… No poop play. Not a fan of snuff at all. And definitely not pedophilia. Other than that, discuss it with me and we’ll see lol.

Things I have to have…

Open mindedness sexually or just not being a “prude”. I like experimenting and not being tied down to a given playbook sexually.

So someone to try things with, live out fantasies, be open to my kinks and vice versa is important to me sexually.

Hmmm… That is a very challenging question lol.

I think most ppl that find me in any way sexy would say it either has to do with my personality/mind OR the whole “musician thing”.

Alot of my previous partners have said they were initially attracted to my personality or just impressed with how my mind worked and it eventually grew to be something they found very arousing… Especially because I can be very cerebral with my flirting when I do flirt (which is rare cause i’m very shy). Also if someone is sapiosexual I tend to appeal to them cause I think deeply and a lot lol (I would say too much tbh).

“The musician thing” is a phenomenon I have encountered where ppl seem to just be inexplicably attracted to ppl who are talented. Singers and musicians especially tend to attract ppl solely off the merit of their talent. I have met a lot of women over the years who clearly were not initally attracted to me physically (even a few who friend-zoned me) who later on saw me perform or heard something I did or wrote and suddenly were interested sexually out of the blue. Also, in my case specifically, I'm very shy and introverted generally and overall a gentle, laid back soul (which women tend to find endearing in a non-sexual way), but when I'm in musician mode i'm VERY aggressive which is a big part of what drives "the musician thing" that attracts women to me, IMHO.

So those would be the main two things I think that ppl find sexy about me.

If we’re talking just physical features, I have been told I have “sexy eyes” (whatever that means 🤔) and a “nice ass” lol.

If I had the choice, I’d actually wish to be, like, “male model sexy” or “movie hunk sexy”. I’d love to be the dude that chicks see walking down the street and just based on my face and body they swoon lol. Dunno if that will ever be a thing lol.