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It's okay if the only emotion you're ready to feel right now is anger. Being angry doesn't make you dangerous or immoral. Anger is a normal emotion. It's usually a secondary emotion, meaning there are other emotions that are causing that anger. But sometimes anger feels like the only safe emotion, and if you're not ready to address the emotions that are the cause of your anger, that's okay. Being angry is allowed.
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It's okay if you don't shower as much as people around you. You don't need to shower every single day to be clean and well-kept. Showers and baths can be extremely difficult or triggering for some people, especially when trauma and neurodivergency converge.
It's okay to feel worse before you feel better. It's okay to feel like healing is just as (if not more) difficult than staying sick. Healing isn't a linear process; there are relapses and stalls. Choosing to heal is a difficult process that changes your brain in ways that are often uncomfortable. You may subconsciously feel "safer" in a hypervigilant state after trauma. You may question if the struggle is "worth it" because healing and not healing both hurt.
You are strong. You can heal. You will begin to gradually see your growth and see positive aspects of healing. It starts out small and spreads slowly through you. It won't always hurt. Healing won't always feel as painful as it does right now. You're not alone.
Ask Guidelines & Things to Know
Hello everybody! Welcome to supportivespaceforsurvivors. This is a trauma advice blog. We function primarily by asking questions submitted to us via the ask box. Because of that, we would appreciate if you would read the following ask guidelines before sending any asks. You can also read these policies on the Carrd. The Carrd also has a short informational blurb about each moderator.
We are not crisis support. Please refrain from sending asks requesting for us to talk you out of harming yourself. Here is an extensive, organized list of alternatives to self harm.
We are not professionals or a substitute for professional advice. We aren't able to diagnose anyone through this blog. Because we aren't professionals and can't diagnose, sometimes we will recommend you consult a professional if you are able.
Please specify in your ask what you'd like to see in your response. For example, specify if you want validation, advice, resources, or simply an acknowledgement of your vent.
Please list applicable trigger warnings at the beginning of your ask. This helps our mods avoid triggering asks, or prepare themselves before interacting with an ask if they can handle the content when appropriately warned beforehand. This ensures that we can respond to your ask as efficiently as possible.
Please avoid using the term "narcissist" or its derivatives, like narcissistic, to describe your abuse. We want this to be a safe space for everyone, including those with stigmatized mental illnesses. We don't believe people with stigmatized mental illnesses, especially cluster b disorders like NPD or BPD, are inherently more dangerous or likely to be abusive. Using the term narcissistic is abelist. A further explanation about the abelist nature of the term "narcissist" is here.
We won't publish inflammatory asks. This is a queer-friendly space, including towards a-spec folx. We aren't going to publish asks that are clearly meant to start drama or discourse.
Please remember the mods are human.This blog is run entirely by volunteers. We want to get to all our asks as efficiently as we can. At the same time, there might be some days where no mods feel up to answering asks.
You can request a specific mod answer your ask if you'd like, but please don't ask for a specific mod not to answer it. This includes stating any mod except one can answer your ask. We ask for you to do it this way because having people ask a certain mod not to answer their ask can feel very exclusionary and be upsetting.
A note about our tagging system: We use the terms "tw r" and "tw sa" as a way to lessen the chances of our blog or its posts getting deleted by tumblr's algorithm.
An explanation of recent events
Hi all. I am posting a timeline of the recent events that have ended up with me inviting some of the mods I trust from @advicetotraumasurvivors to this blog. It is incomplete; as of this posting (4pm CST, August 23, 2021), nobody has admitted any wrongdoing, but I know a lot of you aren't really sure what happened at all. I apologize in advance for the verb tense shift midway through. I unfortunately don't have the spoons to edit it.
Hayden does not plan to stay with the blog. Olive plans to stay at least for now. I will likely stay. I'm not sure about Henrie or Berry at the moment. Those are the only mods that currently have access to this blog. (Edit from Mod Henrie: I’ll be staying.)
The timeline will be under the cut as it is fairly long. All times are in Central Standard Time.
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I just want to let everybody know that we are still answering asks. I know there's been quite a delay with some of them but I promise they will all be posted eventually! You can still send stuff in, you don't have to wait until our inbox is empty :)
Mod Devyn
Mod applications are open again! Here is the link.
Hey y'all, as my ask earlier said, we're still around, but we haven't gotten any (genuine) asks today! Feel free to send stuff in now if you'd like a response before I head to bed. Mod Devyn
