When Spoonies meet Spoonies, self-care and support from others = exactly what you need and can't do for yourself, with no expectations, no energy being drained and both parties feeling held, seen, loved and not taken advantage of, resentful or I've-given-and-not-received. Thank you for teaching me about allowing you to love me, Les, and thank you for allowing me to love you. #SpoonBuddies #QueerFamily #ChosenFamily (Google Spoon Theory or look it up on my blog: germainedelarch.wordpress.com - link in bio on IG and Life Writ Large on Facebook) 🌼🦄💜🕉 #topsurgeryprep #selfcare #breatheinbreatheout (at Johannesburg - South Afrika)