gonna rant and be a hater for a second but truly I hate how this site makes it feel to be a gay trans man. Nearly every other post for the past year is something along the lines about how absolutely terrible it is to be a man or god forbid you like men. (Men gross !!!! Why would you do that to yourself yuck!!)
Do you know how hard it is to transition and feel comfortable in yourself and your sexuality while all you keep seeing is how gross and disgusting your gender and attraction to your gender is? Itās so fucking annoying. Thereās no joke anymore, if there ever was.
I want to be a man and i want to be proud of my attraction to other men but everyone has villanized these things and that makes it really hard to be proud.
Idk where im going with this but my personal queer journey got really slowed because i got so self conscious feeling like maybe I was kinda terrible for becoming a man who loves men. And i think thereās a problem with that.
