nobody understands spencer reid the way i do because all the fic writers who write him as sub (which he definitely can be sub at times, i headcanon this strongly!) write him sub from seasons 1-5(ish) but then write him as dom ESPECIALLY!!!! post-prison
none of you understand that prison would not change this manβs bedroom preferences.. why are people assuming him being in prison would make him dom suddenly? are they teaching bdsm classes in prison or something???? yaβll are just going off his rougher lookβ¦ NO!!!!!
in my head, post-prison spencer would be EXTRA subby for his partner. he just had a highly traumatic experience for 3+ months where he had to be on high alert 24/7 and fend for his LIFE. he wants to be held and loved while letting his guard down with the person he loves. he wants to give up some control. he wants to be told how amazing he is and how handsome he looks.
anyways thanks for coming to my ted talk

















