#soothsayings

the feeling of being tenderly, genuinely cared for in a relationship is such a wonderful thing but actually being able to relax into it and enjoy it completely without any sense of guilt or trepidation??? an even BETTER thing <3

wow it is frankly dazzling what a difference it makes when u start dating someone who is actually so good for, and to, you - it feels like sun warming & shelter & your heart light enough to fly away. I feel like I should be terrified of it, but somehow I’m not and that in itself doesn’t scare me!!! what is happening who even am i

things are hard hard hard right now but I know they’re going to be better soon because I can sense change is coming and all this second-guessing is going to take me somewhere new and clear. I just need to remind myself of this over and over and to let myself cry when I need to while I’m riding it out (which is harder than it sounds, I hate crying for myself, but it’s a necessary evil).