#somuchdependsupon

It’s okay to feel weird about it! Rejecting purity culture doesn’t mean you do away with all feelings surrounding sex. The ambivalence is normal - I experienced that too (and ps: I was 26). ;)

I feel weird about the whole losing it basically casually thing. since I always assumed I would at least wait for a relationship. but I'm 24 and have only gone on two dates ever and never kissed even and everyone is too fundie or too non-believing like where my other heretical unicorns at??? but at the same time I don't know what I'd gain from waiting for that at this point? since I would value it with someone I love with or without previous experience with someone I didn't, and thinking I wouldn't is a remnant of that culture and not a personal ethic and I just kind of realized that. I am a bit concerned about forming feelings beyond casual since we crushed on each other before and also how to cut it off if I begin actually dating but I want to talk about that before starting, anyway.

this is totally important.

i guess i'm kinda lucky in that my ventures into radical feminism have been guided by a lot of really great, really sincerely loving women on tumblr, not by folks like cathy brennan.

I always have dreams where things turn into other things like last night shopping at goodwill turned into a forest…but all the junk was still there.

i love dreams like that.  now i'm picturing a beautiful forest with tacky plates and nicknacks

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Oh my goood you and I had the same dream! Mine was this beautiful Iranian-American woman nicknamed K. It was so specific it was weird.

That's awesome.

:)  thank you.

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LOVE IT!

thanks!  i'm in love :D

deanwinchesster replied to your photo “done!”

OHMYGJD?!!!!!!!