#solitudejoy

There’s something oddly comforting about having a day with nothing much to do. No big plans, no looming deadlines, just me, my home, and the gentle rhythm of pottering about. It’s a quiet kind of joy, one that I’ve come to appreciate more as I’ve learned to embrace solitude rather than fear it.

Loneliness has a way of creeping in when you least expect it, but I’ve realised that being alone doesn’t have to mean feeling lonely. In fact, there’s a real beauty in learning to enjoy your own company, and for me, that often starts with the simplest of things—tidying up a neglected corner, rearranging a shelf, or just making a cup of tea and sitting with my thoughts.

There’s no rush, no pressure. I’ll pick something up, put it down, wander into another room, and suddenly remember a book I meant to flick through or an old song I haven’t listened to in ages. I might start one thing and get completely sidetracked by another, but that’s the joy of pottering—it’s not about productivity, it’s about presence.

Music has always been a big part of my life, and when I’m pottering, it’s the perfect companion. Some days, I’ll put on something soft and instrumental, letting the gentle melodies drift through the house like a warm breeze. Other times, I’ll play something nostalgic—songs that transport me back to different chapters of my life, filling the space with echoes of memories.

Then there are the days when I reach for my own music, letting my emotions guide the session. Whether I’m singing softly to myself, picking up my guitar, or just letting a track play on repeat, music turns solitude into something meaningful. It’s more than background noise—it’s a way of feeling, processing, and even healing.

Another thing I’ve come to appreciate is the way lighting can change everything. I’ve stopped relying on harsh overhead lights and instead use softer lamps, ambient lights or even candles to match my mood. If I need energy, I’ll brighten the space, but if I just want to unwind, a warm, low glow makes all the difference.

It’s amazing how much these little details matter. The right lighting, the right music, and a sense of ease—it all comes together to turn an ordinary day into something special.

On days like this, I find I notice things I’d usually overlook. The way the light moves across the room as the afternoon fades, the scent of clean laundry, the quiet creaks of the house settling into itself. There’s a deep sense of peace in just being, without expectation or agenda.

I used to think that being busy meant being happy, that stillness equated to loneliness. But the more time I’ve spent just pottering about, the more I’ve come to understand that happiness isn’t always about doing—it’s often about feeling at ease within yourself. Learning to be comfortable in your own space, with your own thoughts, is a kind of freedom.