#solarisgone

Hi, not too sure whether I should be allowed to comment here. Ignore this if it's not allowed. I came across this User named Xanyi on the Writblr tag within the last month, they were making posts about their future projects which I as well as others interacted with, and reblogged and enjoyed. There was also private DMs on Tumblr between me and this user. The Writblr community is very calm and peaceful and a great place to make friends, so I was disturbed when I realized I was blocked all of a sudden without any warning or words to tell me why this had happened. When I was venting about this to a friend on Discord, my friend mentioned that they had blocked this user on the Roleplay community a while ago, and showed me this callout blog as to why Xanyi / Solaris had been blocked by my friend. I'm not a part of this but my friend is. They said it was Solarisgod as they told me Xanyi is using the same graphics for their pinned post as they did for their roleplay account and recognized their 'style' straight away. TLDR: I have no idea what I did wrong. I felt very upset as I had been ghosted and deleted and blocked without any words telling me what I did wrong. When I vented about this to my friend though they told me this was something Xanyi did regularly and that is was claimed to be nothing personal. But how can it not be personal? If you are talking to someone, interacting, liking personal posts, and then being shunned with no warning? Xanyi looked at my URL and blocked me, which makes that a personal choice to me. Writblr is not a place for games and manipulation, and it felt very unsettling and childish.

I wasn't going to get involved in this but figured I might as well get this off my chest. I echo a recent post about being met with immense high energy and enthusiasm, but not being able to match it. While it's usually appreciated, it feels immensely disingenuous to be told "it's ok. take your time" and then seeing vague posts on the dash that are created to guilt-trip.

hello, i wasn't sure whether to send in this but i was persuaded by a friend as it seems many people on here have bad experiences with solarisgod. i saw xem through mutuals of mine and i followed xem as i thought the world building seemed cool evenif it's not a genre i write personally. xe followed me back and after a few tumblr messages we added each other on discord for plotting. xyr first message was an extreme block of words like a university dissertation regarding xyr stalker. who i have read about their account on here. and that xe couldn't trust people again but could /trust me/. even though we had only been speaking a few messages and followed each other a day. all of this was loaded with compliments about me and my writing and that i seemed 'super nice' etc. it felt overwhelming to be lovebombed like this and i saw it being patterns with everyone in the mutual circle. my activity was flooded in likes from old posts like xe had gone through my entire blog. even though we were mutual i felt uncomfortable. it took a few replies on discord to actually get to any plotting. i was very passionate about my lore and wanted to lore dump in order to lay down plotting foundations, but xe never responded as xe's message and final message to me was from someone named yancy. i saw someone mention yancy, which i believe is the current partner. however my expeience with yancy was that they would comment alongside xyr's posts and discord messages like they were a duo entity? i'm not an expert in did but i got bad feelings about it like xyr were almost roleplaying as xemselves? rather than actual alters. i also found it disrespectful that after xe had trauma dumped on me with xe's stalker, when i turnt the attention back to roleplaying only, it was a message of xe is tired now and won't be responding. this is yancy and this is all i have to say. i ended up blocking them and removing them on discord then. when i saw this blog and read the accounts i already had bad ick from xem but i think everything about them is entirely fake with xe's personality or their lore actually copyrighted. i notice a lot of xe's inspo and character work comes from the tv show sandman. and even in past when i roleplayed with xem and xe had a markiplier fc, they just used markiplier's egos as their character inspo. i also noticed when i followed them that xe would copy the writing style of their partner, through every reply which i find gross. have your own style and your own imagination. that's besides all the trauma dumping and performance personalities. not a big deal but just my two cents here.

decided to share my own experiences in the hopes of helping others who have gone through this maybe feel less alone- my interactions with solaris happened in august 2023; xey were always in my mutuals' notes (i am an rp blog for a specific fandom with multiple friends in different fandoms, so my dash content can vary, and xey were in mutuals' notes across multiple fandoms) and i kept seeing xem everywhere but didn't follow first due to a rule in xyr notes about not following older writers (i'm of an older age) and because i initially didn't see us interacting. xey ended up following me and i followed back, before xey filled out my interest tracker so i added xem on discord.

Hello. I have interacted with crimeclean / 4ger / s4ints, and while I know it's possible to not know someone as well as you might believe, accusing them of harassing others as the pinned post here claims is so wildly out of character? They're a very sweet person, and never once has that felt fake, unlike the interactions I had with solarisgod. And if nothing else, they're incredibly busy with their real life on a pretty consistent basis, so I also can't see them even having the time to do any of this, whether for solarisgod or because of them. I really don't think it's fair to have them explicitly listed like that without any proof. There have been plenty of people who have come forward about specific things solarisgod did, but I have not seen mention of really anyone else listed, outside of the apology written by one of them. I also want it known this was my own choice to come to this blog and say something, I was not sent here as a defender. I discovered the callout situation, saw the urls mentioned, and felt compelled to say something. I think the pinned post should focus on solarisgod solely unless anyone comes forward because solarisgod is the focus of harm in the rpc.

this isnt anything super big but im someone who had solaris/etc blocked, never interacted but was uncomfortable bc an experience a mutual had, have my blog set to dash only w the most limited viewability. solaris still found my blog to block it back as well as others of mine that are listed only on my blog.

just to have it added to the pinned, xey used to use the url gdexists (now existsarchive)