" ⣠" !!! 3 pros & 3 cons for both pls!
~pros & cons of dating the Jackson siblings~
Pro: Baked goods, big dinners. You will never go hungry so long as she has access to a kitchen. Sheâs also a huge fan of âkitchen sink recipesâ⊠aka) you give her a bunch of miscellaneous ingredients (or, more likely, if sheâs faced with very limited cabinets to work with), Caroline can very likely come up with something at LEAST edible. Papaâs budget was always modest, and Caroline grew up in the kitchen learning how to stretch that as far as she could.
Con: CLINGY. Thereâs absolutely moments where she doesnât even REALIZE sheâs doing it, tooâ she likes the idea of being tethered to something or someone, feels like sheâs more important when someone important (to her, at least) becomes a part of a âpackage dealâ. At first it can manifest as cute, just her fingertips tucking into pockets / her sitting with a leg tossed over the otherâs lap / her holding onto a shirt sleeve while walking behind her someone, but too much of anything becomes just what sheâs usually accused of being: TOO MUCH!! Caroline absolutely doesnât understand the appeal of personal space, thatâs for sure; and she does NOT handle being left behind well at all.
Pro: SHE WILL BE YOUR BIGGEST FAN. It absolutely does NOT matter what youâre into, what youâre doing, or even if she knows anything about it⊠if YOU are excited or passionate about something- Caroline is ALSO VERY excited AND passionate about YOU DOING THE THING. Sheâll want to learn ALL ABOUT THE THING and willÂ
Con: ⊠letâs just be real⊠sheâs probably going to break something. Or get into something she shouldnât be getting into, especially if you told her not to. Spill something. Wreck a car. Get in the way. The girl is like a puppy but puppies get those endearing EYES and floppy EARS and adorable NOSES and sheâs just⊠Caroline⊠hiding something else behind her back that she knows full well she shouldnât have been poking at. Donât give her anything expensive or fragileâ THE GIRL CANNOT BE TRUSTED.
Pro: If you are sick: mentally or physically: you have a nurse who loves you more than you could ever possibly fathom, who also loves being able to be SO USEFUL for once. Caroline will check your fever, bring you blankets, insist you rest, kiss your face, wrap your wounds, do absolutely whatever you need without a second thought. Got a flu? She wonât leave your side until youâre feeling better. Hungover? Sheâll hold your hair back and sit on the sink while you pray to the porcelain god. Broke a leg? You wonât even NEED crutches if Caroline hears about it. Caroline is here for YOU!
Con: Girl can and WILL hold a grudge. She may not remember what she had for breakfast or where she put your keysâ but she will never forget how you called her a bad word or used a harsh tone with her that one time. Sheâll pretend to forgive, and may even actually TRY to do so, too! But if you bite or bark at her too much out of cruelty, itâs going to take a world of apologies and soft reassurances to convince her to let you back in⊠and if you BREAK that fragile little heart of hers: all bets are off, and sheâs quite likely to never look at you the same way she once had⊠and if you cheat on her, youâll never be allowed to touch her ever again.
Pro: Loyalty & Dedication come ABOUND with Daniel. If youâre in a relationship with him, then you are the very most important star in his sky and he will be more than happy to make sure the world knows exactly how special you are to him. He wonât even look at anyone else like that if heâs got a someone he knows he cares about, and heâll be at your beck and call the moment you need anything, even if itâs just attention. Heâs all yours. And he loves it that way.
Con: He worries- a lot. Especially if it goes too long and he doesnât hear from you. This can sometimes come across as jealousy, but it really isnât so much a case of thinking youâve found someone else as it is heâs worried you spontaneously died or got lost in the woods or need him or are in danger or WHATEVER HIS POOR BRAIN CAN COME UP WITH. Heâs the epitome of an old dog sitting by the back door just waiting for their someone to come home: and this worry does have a tendency to manifest much more aggressively than he intends it toâ WHERE WERE YOU!? WHY DIDNâT YOU CALL!? DO YOU KNOW HOW SCARED I WAS THAT SOMETHING WAS WRONG!?â all while he just hugs the snot outtaâ you because heâs so glad everythingâs perfectly fine and heâs just acting like a psycho.
Pro: Boyâs a gentleman, no matter how his significant other identifies (she, he, they, etc). Daniel pulls out chairs and wonât sit down until you do; he holds every door and will carry any packages or whatever youâre balancing in your arms; he will not leave until he sees you close your door behind you; heâs going to buy dinner unless you wrestle the check from him; and donât you even think about opening your own car door because so help him God he will RACE OVER to the passenger side if you think youâre doing it yourself. Mama drilled being a gentleman into his head and itâs now as ingrained in him as BREATHING is... and, also, you get a built-in handyman!
Con: Daniel is s l O W M O V I N G in relationships. Like, you think you love a slow burn until itâs weeks down the line and you canât tell if the boy is flirting with you yet or still just being niceâ because honestly: HEâS PETRIFIED OF UNREQUITED FEELINGS AND LOOKING LIKE A BIG DOOFUS. Heâs not the brightest lad in the world, definitely didnât do well in school (or even graduate), and he absolutely has very little faith in his ability to TELL what others think or feel towards him. Itâs highly likely youâll have to make the first move, or else itâs going to be an awkward tango until that flame goes right out.Â
Pro: Heâs very forgiving and understanding. Short of insulting his Mama, you could spit in his face / cheat on him / be cruel to him / go through your own trials and tribulations with him eager to embrace you once itâs all done. Daniel wants to be there for his someone, and is very willing to excuse being treated poorly if he thinks they need a constant⊠and, honestly, heâs willing to put up with quite a bit of abuse (be it intentional or just them navigating the pitfalls of a relationship) before even considering calling it quits.
Con: INSECURITY. Daniel absolutely will believe his significant other can find someone better than him if they just open their eyes a little bit more, and thereâs really so little they can do to quell that bit of nagging in the back of his mind. Heâs not so much the jealous type in that he gets ANGRY or UPSET if he sees his someone catching eyes with someone else: but he will give up QUICK if itâs a common thing. Despite being a big olâ âtough guyâ, heâs definitely the sort who needs reassurance when heâs in a relationship, which can get old QUICK. He will likely never be fully sure or steady in his partnerâs feelings towards him until they walk down the aisle⊠and even then, itâs the âbut do you LIKE me or LIKE ME LIKE MEâ meme constantly going on in his head. HEADCANON TIME: this manifests in Daniel pretty persistently reminding loved ones âI love youâ about twenty times a day- which seems real cute until the fiftieth fuckinâ week of I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU⊠he just doesnât want them to feel how he knows he feels.
