#softbutchenergy

Hi, I’m Elise

A quietly soft femme, late-blooming woman (57) learning how to inhabit her own warmth.

you may knock softly • asks are open 🌿

On this little corner of Tumblr, I keep pieces of myself I’m still growing into gentle femininity, sapphic longing, slow-burn yearning, cozy queer feelings, and the quiet ache of wanting to be held with kindness and understanding.

I’m tender-hearted, emotional in the way embers glow rather than burn, and I’m learning how to let myself be seen… softly, carefully, honestly.

You’ll find here:

🌿 soft sapphic aesthetics

🌙 gentle guidance & emotional surrender (never harsh, always tender)

🔥 dark-feminine warmth & embers-in-the-night vibes

💗 queer comfort, introspection, vulnerability

🌸 the slow unfolding of a woman becoming herself

I’m a naturally submissive soul, not in a forceful or explicit way, but in the poetic, emotional, trust-woven sense.

Drawn to steady women with gentle hands and deep eyes, women who lead with warmth and presence, not pressure. Women who steady the world simply by being in it.

If you’re soft, queer, emotionally intelligent, tender, witchy, or simply someone who understands the power of quiet connection… you’ll feel at home here.

Welcome to my ember-lit space.

I’m glad you’re here.