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( bsd ) i really actually hate when people ship akutagawa and dazai and claim it’s a healthy relationship. hell, i wouldn’t even write it as a toxic ship, and i’m all for that kind of stuff. i’m a very new aku mun -- i’ve barely written him at all, in fact -- but in that time i’ve been exposed to a lot of aku/dazai content and it literally makes me sick to my stomach. i wish people would understand that dazai essentially groomed and abused aku! i really wish people would understand that it’s NOT attractive or quirky or whatever else to ship an abuse victim with an abuser.

“oh, but aku loves dazai! he’s obsessed with him! his entire life’s mission is to get dazai’s approval and attention!”

yes! because dazai really fucking groomed him! because dazai made himself the only source of light in aku’s life and set an impossible standard! sure, i know aku wasn’t perfect from the start -- i understand that dazai’s entire thing was trying to get aku to show some mercy, but that doesn’t excuse the way he treated him! that doesn’t excuse grooming him to only value his own life as a human being when he could get dazai’s approval! fuck!!!!!!!

tl;dr: i hate when people ship aku and dazai because dazai fucking IS his abuser! dazai did fucking abuse him! that’s not healthy! fucking shit!!!!

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