that story oh my god you're so cute and literally wtf is even up with dudes like they won't even try to do this shit after at least a few days or weeks after they started talking to you, but just right away. Like one time this one guy sent me a message on fb and he was like 'hey how are you?' and I didn't even know him, but I was like 'oh whatever' and we did some smalltalk for like 10 minutes and then he just asked 'hey btw what do you think about sex relationships?' like chill omg
Lmao, I know! It’s like, yo, maybe first off, explain to her right off if that you want to sext or something so that she can say yes or no instead of having her get confused and start giving you life advice like ??
And right? Like its so weird, it’s like, is that all that is on their minds? Maybe a girl just wants to talk, damn. They do need to chill it’s getting out of hand.
And like, the guy Who ‘tricked’ me into it actually didn’t seem like a bad guy like, he told me that we could talk about something else if I wanted (when I was still giving him advice and telling him there is nothing wrong with open relationships) because he liked conversations with me but I didn’t take it because I didn’t want him to think I was uncomfortable with his er fantasy or whatever because he seemed so distraught about it lol. He also said towards the end “I kinda wanted to see what you would want to do in this situation but I feel like maybe you’re not ready for that quite yet.” And that’s also what made me realize this bro was trying to roll play lmao. I think a lot of the problem was that I’m gay so I just assumed he knew for some reason so I didn’t even assume he was trying to sext or something lol.
But yeah, I think guys need to chill with the that like, seriously lmao
