Doâs and Donâts of Studying Away in New York City
1. Eat somewhere you have never heard of before â while Starbucks and Panera Bread are familiar chains, try having a meal in a new environment. It could be the best thing you have ever eaten!
2. Purchase/collect one item that you find while in the city that really intrigues you and keep it close to you - By the end of the summer, it is very special to have one item/momento that you got while in the city to remember the wonderful experience you had. For me, it is my copy of J.R.R. Tolkienâs The Hobbit which I purchased in the city during the summer. It is the star piece of my bookshelf!
3. Have a heart-to-heart conversation with someone in class who you otherwise probably wouldnât have encountered had you not partaken in the summer class â sometimes the most genuine and relatable people are the ones right next to you. Branch out of your normal friend group and get to know your classmates on a personal level.
4. Embrace every day in the city as a new and exciting day â whether it is rainy, sunny, cold, wet, or hot, every day you are in the city is a new day which will hold wonderful new experiences for you. Donât let something like your mood or weather bring down how you experience the time in NYC, and certainly donât let it affect your classmates!
5. Take part in a new activity while in the city â whether it be dressing up for the Mermaid Day Parade or dancing with the Hare Krishnas, try involving yourself in a new experience with other people besides your classmates!
6. Find the section of NYC that speaks the most to you and that you could see yourself being a part of in the future â it is exciting to imagine oneself in the city and to ponder how your life would be different if you called NYC your home.
7. Create your own NYC experience - no two people experience the wonder of NYC the same. While Dr. Gratson is your primary guide in the city, he cannot experience the city for you. It is up to you to embrace every single day and to look at the city from more perspectives that just the one you are used to.
1. DO NOT ever negatively comment on someoneâs appearance or image while in the city â this could pertain to either your classmates or the people around you. While someone may be sitting on the side of the street with ripped clothes or a unique outfit on, that doesnât give you any liberty or cause to comment on that personâs image or what you think they appear to be. Trust me, the man sitting on the side of the street could be a multi-billionaire who just chooses to dress very modestly, and the worst thing you can do is assume someone falls into a certain category just because of how they look or act.
2. DO NOT say something is âstupidâ or âweirdâ just because it is something that doesnât interest you or is something you havenât seen before â you will be exposed to many different images, cultures, ideas, and values while in NYC, all of which are unique and special in their own way. Never undercut somethingâs importance or value just because you âdonât get itâ.
3. DO NOT be disrespectful of any alumni or guest speakers â they are volunteering their own precious time and probably arenât getting anything in return for it, so the absolute least you can do is be respectful of them while they are talking, ask questions to engage them, and give them your full attention and be sure to thank them for giving you their time.
4. DO NOT claim to be an expert in any aspect of NYC life, and do not let this cause an argument between yourself and your classmate(s) â just because you collect comic books and have read your fair share of graphic novels does not make you an expert in world literature. Unless you have Ph. D after your name, youâre not an expert and there is always knowledge to be gained. Donât shoo away othersâ advice or experiences just because you are too proud to admit you are wrong.
5. DO NOT undercut someoneâs contributions or additions to the NYC experience class â Everyone comes from their own walk of life and has something unique to contribute to the overall experience of your class. While everyoneâs experiences will be different, yours are not any better or worthy of more merit than your peersâ.
6. DO NOT assume your time is more valuable than anyone elseâs â you are stepping into a city that has more than eight million people living in it. It might shock you to hear this, but youâre really not that special. If youâre walking slow, get out of the way for other people. Stand on the right side, walk on the left (thatâs for escalators if you havenât heard). Understand that you are a part of a larger class group, and you are also only one person in an ocean of millions, and you donât always need to be the center of attention.
7. DO NOT let your own personal feelings, moods, vendettas, etc. affect the experiences of your classmates in NYC - There is a difference between starting an intellectual debate on a popular topic with people who are willing to discuss the topic, and being a know-it-all. If you are having a bad day, keep that to yourself and do not let that affect the overall mood of the group. Everyone is here to learn and grow in both their intellectual and personal selves, and that can be accomplished if everyone puts their best feet forward and fully embraces the wonders and diversity of NYC.