#singleholiday

I hate Valentine’s Day.

I feel like so many people just jump into relationships around the time of Valentine’s Day because they are alone.

So many people pretended to be happy when they are in relationships but they aren’t.

And single people just wish they are in a relationship because of it and will jump into anything because of it

Reincarnation - the belief that upon death of the body, the soul comes back to earth in another body or form. Can also be called “rebirth”. 

Everyone has their own beliefs of what happens when our souls pass on but there is always a little bit of fear of the unknown. If you house the belief of reincarnation or rebirth, you believe that our souls travel from lifetime to lifetime learning lessons that get you closer and closer to a divine power. Some learn faster than others and are able to reach their divine destiny quicker. 

As I stated in my last post, I have been dealing with break ups all throughout 2016. The pain of being alone and being trapped with memories of your lost loves could certainly cripple you, you start to shrink a little inside and the fear of future rejection and pain begin to build thick walls that not even the strongest army could penetrate. It is so easy to get to that place, especially when approaching the Holiday season where being in a relationship is an idealistic way to spend the magical times. But why live life in a barrier that you single handedly created? 

Break ups are not the end, rather the beginning. This year, I chose to look at my break ups as an opportunity for rebirth and that is what I am encouraging all of you who are single or going through a break up to do! There are so many positive things about being single during the Holidays (i.e. saving money on a gift for your SO and their families). Take this time in your life to spoil yourself with gifts and love. Surround yourself with people worthy of your time, love and attention. Use this opportunity to focus on what you really want in life and then put it into action! Holiday’s of 2016 are not cuddle season, they are SINGLE SEASON!