#simple affirmations

You’re most likely not second guessing yourself after reading that title. You’re probably thinking something like, “yes, of course I do!”

Considering you really care about this person, you should really think about what you would do to get them to be yours. I’m sure there’s a lot you would do to get to that point where they’re yours. But fear can take over, circumstances can feel like they’re blocking your relationship from becoming a thing, etc.

So, I came up with a simple thought that might help. Tell yourself: “It is 100% guaranteed that I’ll get my specific person in my reality as long as I believe that they are already mine.” Because guess what? It is 100% guaranteed that you will. Challenge yourself that if you push away the circumstances in your mind and know that they are already yours, you will physically have them.

Pick on yourself a bit to fire yourself up. Say, “I’m not proving that I love/care about this person by not acting like they’re mine.” Use your strong, genuine feelings for them as fuel to push yourself into the end state.

So, when it came to things on the “smaller scale,” I did simple affirmations without overthinking, which is how I ended up manifesting things like my platonic SP talking to me again, a friend giving me a hug before I left for my holiday break, etc. But, when it comes to things that are per se more life-changing for me, I put more pressure on myself and overthink how it’ll happen because I want it to be perfect. I’ll say more detailed affirmations or multiple ones that end up jumping around all over the place.

But here’s the thing. Don’t scale down what you want, don’t act like you’re dreaming too big. Instead, scale down your affirmations to something simple and maybe stick to only one affirmation per manifestation. And, if you need more convincing to get into the end state, just keep repeating that same exact affirmation for that manifestation.

To give an example, if you’re manifesting an SP and you’re currently in the state of being single, say something like, “[My SP] and I are in a serious relationship.” It’s simple and it doesn’t focus on the how - because the how doesn’t matter - it focuses specifically on the end state.

To be clear, you can manifest something simpler. A simple affirmation for that is “[My SP] is calling me.” It can help take some pressure off if you’re feeling worried about leaping directly into the end state of a “big” manifestation. But, it’s encouraged to manifest the end state of the bigger want, because then you’re not taking multiple steps as if it’s a process and you don’t want to focus on how it happens. Although, if you want it to be a process involving multiple manifestations, one after another, then of course that’s something you can do (ie. a “slow burn” relationship - manifesting a friendship first and then a relationship second).