#shrapnelshield

It's entirely up to you at the end of the day, but it shouldn't be necessary. What goes unsaid festers. It stays with you, and because you can't get it out - it stays on in some form or another. I've done it for longer, honey and believe me - the wear and tear is starting to show in the relationships I've built. People start to take issue with withdrawing - they begin to push into your safe zone and then all hell breaks loose. Picking up the pieces is a lot harder than venting bits at a time.

If your friends are upset by what you say, it doesn't mean you should stop saying it. Talk it out with them - why are they getting their knickers in a knot over your words? Don't feel like you have to bottle up and force a smile for someone else's benefit. It's dangerous. Believe me. It comes out in the worst ways then. Discuss the issues with them, because you are a real life person beneath the RP mask - and the person needs to have a voice too, honey.

Honey, this is your blog. This is tumblr. You have the right to say whatever the hell you want to say. If you need to go OOC to get something off your chest - then you damn well go OOC - because I don't remember Hitler setting this little site up. If someone gets upset over you needing to vent, if they unfollow - then that is their problem and they have to deal with it. Run the blog the way you want, hone. Cause its yours, and no one elses. //snuggles//

Sorry I'm late to the party. *throws confetti* Happy birthday, your gloriousness! Bestest wishes, and warmest hugs!

On another note,

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We all have bad days, sweet heart. I can relate. Just know that you don't have to fix yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. There are simply instances when you need some space to breathe from everything and everyone. Things aren't always this bad. Just remember - if you like doing something, don't ever let anyone take it away from you. Don't give it up for someone else's opinion. Don't ever feel like you're not good enough because you think someone is better than you. Stand tall, little one