#shittyboss

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Today I worked independently. Without the guidance of my shitty boss who’s always nagging me about “Workmanship”. By the way, why the hell he gives me that remark? Because he always thought that I’m not doing well in my work. That’s rude, I’m always at my phase in work. I don’t have the time to have some leisure and yet he keeps bragging me that I didn’t execute our work process. Even if I attain accomplishments and yet it’s still not enough? I don’t know what the hell he’s trying to do to me. But I know in my self that I did my best. Set aside the problem with my shitty boss. Silence envelopes me and it makes my ears at peace. Since he’s in a meeting. I worked without trouble and have time to rest even if its 5 min or 10. There is no boss who orders me around knowing that the task he gives is wrong. In that time I attain peace.

When your boss talks to like a fucking idiot because he thinks he’s the smartest man aLIVE! Its not even a “women aren’t as smart as men” thing, its just a “everyone is so much stupider than I am so I should talk to everyone like they understand nothing!”

I work for a completely crazy bitch and that’s no exaggeration.  Allow me to give you some examples that will display this statement further. 1. She screams and yells at her special needs students and at other staff members. 2. She triggers negative behavior in students because of her need to control things and take credit for the successes of others. 3. She openly judges people based on what they drive, where they work, what they wear, etc.  She wonders why she’s single in the same conversation in which she admits to turning down a date because he drove an old Subaru and she has “standards” to maintain. 4. She refers to me as her “friend” but has logged into my email and Google Docs on our shared computer, and perused my documents. 5. She begs me to help her “stop” bad situations in the classroom and, when I do, she tells me she owes me something of which I will never see.  At this point, she owes me a glass of wine, a coffee, and two lunches. 6. She requires me to stay “off the clock” and calls it “volunteer time” and promises I can leave early on Wednesdays to see my spouse.  Then, she takes her comp time on Wednesday afternoons so I can’t leave. 7. She manages and controls the communication between myself and the assistant in the classroom, in order to prevent us from planning and utilizing anything close to teamwork. 8. She promises students and staff things and then does not follow through, then wonders why her kids blow out and hit things.  The same wonder occurs when one of the staff says to her, “I would appreciate if you would speak to me like I’m an adult.”  She blinks and says, “Okay, well right now I don’t care and I need you to suck it up and.......” 9. She bullies staff and students by withholding, teasing, and condescending.  She purposely sends staff to do things she knows will make them uncomfortable.  Example, if she knows a student’s sexual comments make me uncomfortable, she’ll purposely put me in one of the tutoring rooms, alone with the student.  When I reminded her of what I’ve been through she said, “Look, I don’t care of you were raped or whatever happened, I mean, I care, but not at school.” 10. She tells everyone in the school (many don’t like her) that I’m one of her best friends.  This has made it nearly impossible for me to build relationships with coworkers because they automatically distrust me.  It took three months before many would talk to me. Regarding advice:  I am getting to the point where I’m going to start verbally hitting back at people who tell me “it can’t be that bad” or “don’t take it personal”.  I work for a woman who has less experience than I do, but she commands that I do things in a manner that says she may have owned me in a past life.  I have a degree, twelve years of experience, and masters credits.  There’s no need to point at the floor and say, “Sweep up that glass!” in a tone that says you expected me to move faster.  There’s no need to mock me and others in front of the students.  There’s no need to continually comment on how I shouldn't be tired because I’m so thin, when she knows it’s because I’m not making enough to buy groceries.   I am happy in my relationship.  When I am not at work or dreading going back, I’m happy.  However, when I’m at work, I find myself wishing I were dead.  I’m contracted until June and any other school district is going to see my resume and put me in their behavior program.  I’m branded and, even if I finished my masters, schools would likely still want me handling behavior instead of academics.  The only reason I’m good at what I do is because I would have been a good parent.  I became a teacher for a love of knowledge, but I have continued to teach because I can make kids behave, which is something I despise having to do. Temporarily, I need to be able to indulge a bit to feel better.  I need to spend a few hours staring at the ocean or having a massage and soak or eating a big meal, but those are options I cannot afford.  The Crazy Bitch can, she bragged about making more than double what I do a year.

Today I have to accept a “dressing down” from a man who has never known real hardship or fear.  He’s not one to connect to people as human beings, as he sees them more like parts of a system.  Just like most parts in your car’s engine, those people can be replaced.  The principal/teacher relationship is much like the difference between a retail district manager and a retail cashier.  The cashier works with the people and takes the abuse while the DM works with the papers and hears about the stories of angry customers after the fact.  Then, he/she makes a judgment based on a situation they did not experience first hand.  For the sake of the store, they always determine the customer as being right.

This is the same thing that a teacher experiences today.  A student has all the power and the teacher walks a fine line of maintaining educational integrity and making the kids like them.  The students want to be entertained or they’ll do their best to get rid of you.  

A principal and teacher are also much like a director and the actor.  The director views himself as better than the actor and considers the actor replaceable.  The actor sees the director as washed up and old.

The problem is created when one is not able to experience the work of the other.  In the education system, principals completely separate themselves from the classroom and from working with the students.  Teachers never see the inner workings of the decision-making.  This creates a chasm.  

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I saw this article while on LinkedIn as I was (yup...you guessed it!) on my vigorous search for a new job.  I can definitely say that 4 out of the 5 “signs” were written perfectly for how I was feeling. Hopefully this helps see that its TIME-TA-GO!

Toodles,