Okay okay.... but what if when Tony visits Peter for the first time. He really freaked out. Got paranoid. He doesn't know what Mr. Stark wants and sure he would love to help his idol. But without being told why he needs help, what he is gonna be facing, the sneaky way he got in. It worries him. He has heard of people experimenting on mutants. And he is only 14!
I kinda like the idea of him going on the run. Right there, before the fight in Germany. He gets his GED. Finally has this heart to heart talk with Aunt May. Tells her he is a mutant.
Tells her his concerns and they go on the run. With May working at the shelter she KNOWS people. Has connections.[ I can't remember if Ben was military or not but for the sake of this imma say he was] old army buddies of Ben's.
And funnily enough it's this mysterious James that used to come to the shelter that responds first. Gets them new identifications, gets them to take all there cash out. Have bus tickets waiting for them. James even joins them.
All it took was for her to say " My nephew didn't ask for these powers. But he is just a kid, and he has no part of being in a war. That he could get kidnapped and experimented on... we can't take that risk"
So James helps them get out of New York. They go to California, still lots of people, don't stand out as much. And later on Peter and May finding out James is going out with Captain America. With May working, Bucky and Steve help raise Peter, training him and basicly co parenting.
Like.... I love this concept so much....