hmm it's hard to tell because most of the really amazing blogs that I follow are in school! I will always recommend memoryserums because she is hella awesome and she would always be able to post updates before me even if I got there ten minutes after the update was released haha! 

I also recommend divergencedaily, hailshailene, sheonews, and beatriceprios

So I created this a couple weeks ago after finding out that it wasn’t Theo with Shai at venice beach but this guy.  :((( as much as i wish it was really Theo, she does look very happy.  So i was bored and did a little research and found out it was this guy:

 I do know his name, however, to respect his privacy, I won’t announce his name.  You could consider that they’re just friends but then I came across this:

The night we had a lot of Sheo moments, he was there to support her.  

He also mentions her as “My girl” I guess that could be a friend thing but then i read the comments.

You can see here that one said “give her a smooch for me”  My guess is that he knows Shailene on a level where they kiss… Idk.. its just a guess that would make sense.  

And her mother also commented on this as well, which means that she also knows him.  

That picture was taken in March during the Divergent Premiere but that wasn’t the only time they hung out. 

So apparently by name, this is the same guy.  I gotta say that she really does look happy and that’s all that matters.  Plus he seems pretty chill.  This was in January 2014 I believe.  

So fast forward to about a month ago during Comic con.  

Remember when everyone freaked out that Ruth was there?

This picture was reposted by a lot of fans but i found that this guy was the one who first uploaded it.  I think this was taken after comic con (It looks like she’s wearing the same shirt) So yes while we were upset about the fact that Ruth was there, Shailene had someone as well to accompany her afterwards with others. 

Notice he captioned it “Perfection”.  

I’m not sure if he’s referring to the group as a whole or only to Shai (Since i’m sure they haven’t seen each other in a while, while she was in Atlanta filming insurgent.)

We also had a lot of sheo moments that day but she did see him with her friends.. no Theo:(  

We can see that they’ve hung out multiple times

I am a huge sheo shipper and no my intention for this post was not to sink this ship.. I just wanted to share this with everyone on this ship.  Theo has Ruth and apparently Shai has this guy.  I am NOT insulting this guy in any way.. you can see that they are both very happy and that’s all that matters to us fans of Shailene. Theo and Ruth also seem happy.  

I didn’t share his name to not only protect his privacy but also to Shai’s.