#shailey

Camila dragged Shawn in these lyrics. She always wanted him but he kept rejecting her and dating other girls and sleeping around i don’t know why she even let Matthew go to be with someone who really didn’t want her, he was falling hard for Hailey and the only reason he gave Camila a chance is because Hailey left him for Justin Bieber...

their relationship is a mess and I won’t be surprised when Camila breaks up with Shawn, she’s not even in love with him, it was always lust and desire.

And let’s not forget Camila is a emotional cheater thinking about Shawn while in a relationship with Matthew then crying and wanting him back even while she’s with Shawn.... The Shawmila ship is a fucking mess!!

I ALWAYS knew Hailey loved Justin since things started happening between them (the first time Jelena broke up). I posted something a while back about Shawn and Hailey at the MET Gala. I explained how I hated that couple because I didn't like Hailey that much (I explained my reason). But then I started liking Shailey because Shawn seemed happy. But then, they broke things off and she started dating officially Justin. Shawn released his Rolling Stones story and how he deep down knew Hailey was in love with Justin. He obviously didn't use this exact words. It was so unfair. Hailey has always been in love with Justin. But Justin played her. He was still in love with Selena when things started happening between them two. And when Hailey wanted more, Justin broke things off and pictures of Jelena started scrolling through internet. Since then, Hailey and Justin never spoke again. Even in Hailey’s bday, Kendall Jenner sent her muffins that spelled “Fuck Him”. Months passed and then the whole Shailey thing started. But now, she is married to Justin. So all this time, she has been in love with JB. So she never liked Shawn? Was she with him just because fame? Or to get Justin’s attention? 

I’m not saying I don't ship Justin and Hailey. I love that couple. It took me some time to like it (because I was a HUGE Jelena shipper) but now I love it. I just hated that our baby got hurt in the middle. And that he was probably used. I really hope Shawn finds someone that makes him the happiest guy on Earth and to keep him sane. Love you Shawn to the moon and back. 

Shailey 

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Hey guys,

I’m not really in your fandom, so you clearly don’t know me. Don’t get me wrong, I love Shawn Mendes’s music and he seems to be a great guy, I even went to a show once, but I don’t follow his life and my blog isn’t about him at all.

However, I saw something on Instagram and then here. You, freaking out about him and that girl model, Hailey Baldwin I think?

So little story, I was a Directioner when I was a teenager. I remember the fandom, freaking out every time one of the guys got a new girlfriend. I saw so many people hating on these poor girls. It was crazy, really. But I did nothing to stop it. In fact, I wouldn’t talk on social media, but I was so freaking mad when Taylor Swift started dating Harry Styles, lol. God, I’m almost ashamed now.

So yeah, I understand how you feel. And I know that a small part of you, even if you would never admit that to anyone in this world, do believe that you have your chance with him. You imagine a life with him. He is the perfect boyfriend in your mind. And that’s why you’re so angry. Because you’re jealous, even if you don’t want to admit it.

You’re jealous, so you hate her. She rubs you the wrong way. You think she will be bad news. You think she might even change your fav. You don’t support the relationship. Maybe it’s even just some publicity stunt, right?

And I understand, I really do. I’ve been a teenager too, once. (god, I sound like I’m such an old lady. Let’s make one thing clear, I’m 19. Oh yeah, I just fucked up the whole thing now didn’t I?)

But now is the moment you’re going to hate me.

There’s, what, maybe a 0.000001% chance that you will be the one to end up with Shawn Mendes. So let’s be honest.

You’ll never be in a relationship with Shawn Mendes.

Not because you’re not pretty enough, or smart enough, or funny enough, or well, you get the point. You are all of that. You are enough. But he’s a celebrity. He will end up meeting so many people, so many other celebrities.

He will be in a relationship. Fall in love. Breakup. Do it all over again.

And it won’t be with you.

He loves his fan. I’m sure he does. But he doesn’t know you personally. And he is not in love with you.

I’m sorry, I really am. But you are wasting your time, hating on a girl you don’t know. You are hurting yourself and in the process, maybe hurting Shawn himself and his friend/girlfriend/fuckfriend, whatever she is.

Just be happy for him. Love his music. His personality. Supports him. But don’t get that into his personal life. It is none of your business, and you’ll be far happier the day that you’ll stop obsessing about what he is doing.

I know it’s hard, I know you don’t want to hear this and I’m ready to receive hate (well, I would rather not). But guys, calm down.