#separitism

"When you're having an argument with a boy about feminism and realize nothing you say will ever get through to them bc they don't feel empathy for something they've never experienced"

they're late 20's to mid 40's

they haven't had a job or social life since they married their husband

they are completely isolated from the outside world

they're agoraphobic and have no friends outside their husbands

they struggle with mental health and often were diagnosed with disorders like anxiety, depression, obesity and OCD

the symptoms for these disorders manifested sometime in the period of isolation that occurred after marrying their husbands.

they learned about radical feminism after marriage Alot of their lives vary, but the biggest pattern I've noticed is social isolation that occurred after marrying their husband. Alot of them are recovering, but even according to them, it took more than a decade to casually leave the house. it feels like something Charlotte Perkins Gilman wrote. the more they self-isolate, the more dependent they become. After marrying, in time, they fall into roles subliminally intended by the patriarchy. dependent and isolated and unable to escape the kind of cycle that having a husband guarantees

and they stay with them bc they're "nice" and they feel guilty because they're so dependent on them. So, they stay loyal to the cause of their problems, and thus the cycle continues.

Rough Work In Progress

"Separatism doesn't work, not enough people practice it"

then practice it.

"Separatism is for lesbians"

you're not immediately 6b9t just because you're a lesbian. they can be heteronormative too and that's very bad. Its also just a random excuse to be lesbiphobic bc what do they have to do with you. especially weird that this excuse almost exclusively comes from bisexuals which makes even less sense

"we can't help that we're osa"

you CAN choose not to date, just like you choose WHO to date. there's virtually no excuse if you're bisexual

"you are denying women companionship" straight ppl get so whiney, but they banned gay marriage for the past millennia. dating is an artifice constructed by men to own women. why else do you think dating immediately results in dedicating your life to him? get a cat or something. get a friend. You are born alone and you seemed to do fine.

"there are good men out there"

study found that 100% of men in the study felt resentment towards their girlfriends when they succeeded btw

100% of men

all men. all men hate it when you do anything that resembles autonomy

your boyfriends hate you or don't see you as human

whyyyy do they always look like that when your het-partnered friend tells you about how great and hot her boyfriend is??? and when you’re unfortunate enough to actually meet him he looks like he’s not even the same species

ofc lol thank you for asking!

i made it a while ago, but y'know what they say.. "life imitates art"

still wip