#6b9t

"When you're having an argument with a boy about feminism and realize nothing you say will ever get through to them bc they don't feel empathy for something they've never experienced"

Mothers are more likely to be killed by their sons than a stranger

@nicenormalwitch, I mean this really seriously

This is not true, Being a single woman is WAY less dangerous than being a married one.

Men will literally use your mental health issues against you in order to date you. when you are in a vulnerable mental state, letting MEN get inti a situation where they can use that against you is NOT a safe environment.

Especially because your husband assaulted you and abused you for years, strangers didn't.

YOU. ARE. BETTER. ALONE

Mark my words, radblr. I WILL take full control over the Radical Feminist Alliance

If i cannot manipulate the admin, @radicalite /@liberate-women-now into forking over ownership, I will use force.

we can't change men. they cannot help us tldr in the bottom

The situation that women in the middle east are experiencing today is worse than it was for women in ancient Greece and Mesopotamia, roughly 3000 years ago

women today even marry earlier than their ancient predecessors there are more child brides, more human trafficking, and even less protective rights for women. and these persecutions are legitimized by the world's largest religion today, which only keeps growing in population, power, and legal jurisdiction. the desire for human rights has only gotten larger among women in every culture. The fight for freedom has been a constant and unwavering battle for women. feminism has continued to bloom exponentially, yet our status didn't really change, every improvement is from advanced technology and the struggle of women before us we don't give the women before us enough credit. every luxury we experience today is because they died for us. but I think the reason we're stagnant is because our socialization. women are taught to cater to men, so even our feminists want to direct our feminism towards our oppressors, "convincing them" to not be sexist. fighting to change their minds in hopes that it will make our situation better. that's the problem. those men aren't just sexist because they're delightfully ignorant, they're sexist because the world caters to them. like our feminists that work to forgive them and change minds. women have been preaching feminism to men since feminism existed. they were the first people women preached it to. There is a vastly unintuitive irony in the feminism that continuously revolves around changing minds when men shouldn't have had a different opinion in the first place. men aren't victims here. if they could undo their socilization they would. But they won't because that would require being treated equally, and they're not. they could never fathom being in a woman's shoes, so they will never completely empathize it hurts to know that the men you are taught to trust want to defend the patriarchy in an act of self-preservation, but they do. that's why even nice men seem eerily out of character when you bring up feminism. that's why we need to cut them out. never talk to them again in situations outside of work or survival. the oppression of women is unlike any other. a woman is oppressed in every man's life so long as he was born. He saw firsthand the oppression for 10,000 years and didn't do anything about it. men make up 80% of the government on average. every single liberation for women came from 20% of women. it came from women threatening men, it came from women demanding for a crumb of liberation instead of asking nicely. It came from solidarity and working together, strikes, campaigns and being unrelenting. those who think men can change their minds don't understand how deeply ingrained sexism is everywhere. in every culture, in every point in history, in every corner of society, by every race, nationality, ethnicity, family, friend women were considered oppressed. this is 50% of the human race that makes up less than 1% of written history.

if men could be allies, they would've done so already STOP TRYING TO CHANGE MEN. WE CAN ONLY CHANGE OURSELVES. WE CAN ONLY SEPARATE

GO 4B. FOCUS ON OTHER WOMEN

they're late 20's to mid 40's

they haven't had a job or social life since they married their husband

they are completely isolated from the outside world

they're agoraphobic and have no friends outside their husbands

they struggle with mental health and often were diagnosed with disorders like anxiety, depression, obesity and OCD

the symptoms for these disorders manifested sometime in the period of isolation that occurred after marrying their husbands.

they learned about radical feminism after marriage Alot of their lives vary, but the biggest pattern I've noticed is social isolation that occurred after marrying their husband. Alot of them are recovering, but even according to them, it took more than a decade to casually leave the house. it feels like something Charlotte Perkins Gilman wrote. the more they self-isolate, the more dependent they become. After marrying, in time, they fall into roles subliminally intended by the patriarchy. dependent and isolated and unable to escape the kind of cycle that having a husband guarantees

and they stay with them bc they're "nice" and they feel guilty because they're so dependent on them. So, they stay loyal to the cause of their problems, and thus the cycle continues.

Rough Work In Progress