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Do you mind introducing yourself?

My name’s Kaylen, but you can call me Kay (if you want)!  I’m 5'5" or about 167cm, I have short ashy blonde hair that behaves like the ocean (angry and uneven) and hazel eyes. I’m eighteen, just finish my first year of college, and love fluffy things.

Can you give us a rundown on your fictional baes?

I’ll give you two show fulls (and my top 5)! In KnB I love Himuro Tastsuya, Imayoshi Shoichi, Mitobe Rinnosuke, Murasakibara Atsushi, and Kotaro Hayama. In Haikyuu!! Oikawa Tooru, Sugawara Koushi, Kuroo Testurou, Bokuto Koutarou, and Hanamaki Takahiro, but I’m here to talk about my love for Oikawa

What’s the thing that makes you happiest about your fictional bae(s)?

Oikawa is so passionate and hardworking, how could you not love the guy?? He is so pretty and dorky at the same time—you might even say adorkable (I like to). I like to think our personalities would match in a relationship? I think he likes to be spoiled and I wouldn’t mind giving him attention, although I don’t think he’s needy, which is perfect because I can’t handle neediness for long. I love the headcanon that he has no fashion taste because we could go shopping together and watch a movie. He’s childish and stubborn, but that’s ok because I’m only stubborn with certain things and can be a mini mom. I like to think he’s romantic and aims to please. I am not that hard to please when you get to know me. He’s salty and I drink water, we balance each other

What is the thing you think would make them happiest about you?

I would love to spoil him when he needs it and I can be pretty silly. I’m easy to tease and blush easily, also I’m a dork. I’m patient and easy-going, but can be strict? My sister says I smell good? I have nice shampoo. I can give massages (given I’m no professional, but I like to think I’m at least decent at them), I can cook given a recipe, and am good with kids???

What are little everyday things you wish you could do together?

Cuddle, hold hands, kisses, you know--the works. Dumb sloppy flirty texts form me and he can charm me via text, phone calls, and catching up at the end of the day. Dancing?? I only know how to do basic swing dancing, but I’m a fast learner. If we lived together I wanna make dinner with him, have lazy days where we cuddle, make out, and get take out. Watch movies together, swim, read, walks, and really anything. Just give me some love and butterflies?

What are ways to make you feel loved and appreciated?

Cute text messages, little gifts (like flowers, complements that are genuine), playing with my hair, and rubbing my back (or scratch it?). Making me laugh/smile, a little PDA—hand holding, quick smooches, being on my side, doing things when I ask the first time, and spoiling me every once in a while?

How would you greet your fave on an early morning?

Do you mind introducing yourself?

I’m Jiali, but most people call me Jia. I am of Filipino-Chinese descent, but I suck in speaking the languages istg. I just turned 18 years old and currently attending university, studying BS Chemical Engineering. I’m a walking xiaolongbao who loves cookies and milk so much. Also, I like traveling, eating, reading, taking pictures of random stuff, and sleeping. I’m pretty emotional and very clingy. I can never survive a day without listening to music idk. I’m a sucker for hugs and petting. From time to time, I get the punchlines wrong so yeah beware. LOL I’M SO HORRIBLE WHEN IT COMES TO INTROS.

Can you give us a rundown of your fictional baes?

I HAVE TONS OF THEM REALLY NOT JUST IN THE ANIMANGA WORLD BUT ALSO IN THE NOVELS I’VE ALREADY READ BUT SINCE THEY’RE TOO MANY CAN I JUST TALK ABOUT THE ANIMANGA PEEPS??? Yes? Yes. 

TBVH, I don’t know if I can list (or remember) them all but here it goes…

I REALLY LOVE LI SYAORAN (first Chinese bias), ORIHARA IZAYA, AKAASHI KEIJI, KURURUGI SUZAKU, OREKI HOTARO, KURAPIKA, HYUGA NEJI, AKABANE KARMA, HIRAGI SHINYA, NANASE HARUKA, FUJIWARA TAKERU, YAGAMI RIKU, YAGAMI TOMOE (CLAIMING IT), MIYUKI KAZUYA, NINE, NASE HIROOMI, TOSHIRO HITSUGAYA, USUI TAKUMI, AKASHI SEIJUUROU, KISE RYOUTA, MIDORIMA SHINTAROU, NIJIMURA SHUUZO, AND HIMURO TATSUYA (yes I have tons of KNB baes I’m sorry). ISTG GUYS I FANGIRL OVER THESE GUYS ON TWITTER WAY TOO MUCH BELIEVE ME.

Okay, I know…they’re too many. But I guess if I have to choose one from them all (it’s hard), I will definite go for Himuro Tatsubae. 

For the following questions, I’ll just talk about Tatsubae because if I’ll include everyone, I might not be able to finish this by the end of the semester. kidding

What’s the thing that makes you the happiest about your fictional bae(s)?

I love Himuro’s smile…I love it so much.

It’s just so calm and beautiful. Maybe because I love it whenever people smile. Smiles always give me a magical effect. Like even after one hard day, as long as I see people smiling sincerely, my mood can totally change. And maybe my camera will be full of Himuro smiling (or maybe other stolen shots). I won’t care tbvh. AND HIS LAUGH!!! OH GOSH HIS LAUGH!!! IT’S ALSO SO BEAUTIFUL AND I WANT TO FLIP. AND WELL TBVH HIS VOICE?!!?!? YES HIS VOICE. LIKE IT’S JUST SO BEAUTIFUL AND I REALLY CURSE IN REAL LIFE WHENEVER I HEAR HIS VOICE BECAUSE GAAAH IT’S JUST SO BEAUTIFUL AND SOOTHING IDK HOW TO DESCRIBE IT PROPERLY PLEASE HELP ME. AND HE’S A VERY CALM PERSON OK LIKE KINDA OPPOSITE TO ME BECAUSE AS YOU CAN SEE IM ALREADY IN ALL CAPS AND I’M NOT TYPING PROPERLY ANYMORE BECAUSE I CANT CONTAIN MY FEELS BUT YEAH HE’S CALM AND THAT’S WHAT I LIKE ABOUT HIM LIKE WE KINDA COMPLEMENT EACH OTHER IN SOMEWAY???

AND WAIT DID I ALREADY MENTION HIS SMILE?? YEAH I DID BUT OK LET ME SAY IT AGAIN: I LOVE HIS SMILE DEAR LORD.

What is the thing you think would make them happiest about you?

I’m actually a listener and I guess that’s a thing that Tatsubae would like about me. I know that he has tons of insecurities and I’d be willing to listen to what he has to say about them whenever he feels like it because sometimes, you don’t really need to hear advice, right? You just need to vent things about and I’ll gladly be his loyal listener. And maybe afterwards, I could give him a kiss on the forehead or a hug, saying, “you’re still my number one,” or something like that (THAT’S JUST SO CHEESY IDK IF I CAN ACTUALLY DO IT BUT MAYBE I CAN WHO KNOWS HAHAAHAHAAH). Also, maybe he’d get to enjoy my bubbly nature. Like I can imagine him chuckling at the little things I get excited about. And maybe he’d somehow like my cuddly nature? Maybe he’d get surprised by it at first, but in the long run, he’d end up looking for it becausE BRO I REALLY LOVE EMBRACE IDK WHY. Also, I have a habit of puffing out my (chubby) cheeks and maybe he’d be fond of them, too. Pinch here, pinch there. AND MAYBE I CAN ACTUALLY MAKE HIM LAUGH WITH MY DUMB SENSE OF HUMOR IDK

What are the little everyday things that you wish you could do together?

Talking about the things in our lives…like the recent happenings, I guess? I mean I really love doing that with my friends. Go out to have some coffee and talk about the stuff that’s been happening/has happened lately. It’s not everyday that we get to be together, so there’s always little catching up to do. I’m a busy person with acads and org work and I’m not the best when it comes to good time management (I actually don’t know why I’m doing this OTL but okay this is fun so let me take a break first) and Tatsuya surely understands if I come home late and go straight to do acads so yeah. Also, I bet he’d continue his basketball career when he enters uni so we’re busy persons sad af. We would listen to each other’s rants and laugh at the stupid things we’ve done recently. It’s nice to think about it, really. It would make me know him deeper and deeper and same would go for him when it comes to me. It’s cute. (HOW I WISH THIS WOULD REALLY HAPPEN BLEH)

AND OK MAYBE SOME BATH TIME WITH HIM HEHEHEEHEHE

What are the ways to make you feel loved and appreciated?

IDK HUGS??? KISSES??!?! HUGS?!?! And maybe reminders about how he loves me everyday. It will really make me feel very secure. Also, sharing random stuff that happened recently or he’s been thinking about lately (like the one stated above) would make me feel like he really trusts me.  If ever he’d be away (idk probably, for example, he’s in LA because you know family stuff), we’d video call each other from time to time. Timezone differences suck and putting an effort to see each other (virtually) means a lot already. Of course it’s a two-way process so maybe we can exchange the staying-up-late moments. Like I’ll stay up late for him this day then tomorrow, he’ll be the one to stay up late and so on. Simple agreements/arrangements like that would be nice, too.

And speaking of agreements…of course there would also be disagreements (maybe a lot lol who knows?). We’re both flawed humans and there would always be a point where the two of us won’t agree on something - be it small or not. Making up after these arguments (whether after a minute or days) takes a lot of effort, too. I mean, it’s really hard to lower one’s pride, right? IDK it makes me feel like if he says sorry, it just means that he hates it whenever we fight (I mean who doesn’t?). It makes me feel loved since he couldn’t stand us being in a quarrel and shit. Same goes for me.

How would you greet your fave on an early morning?

During weekdays, I’d probably hit him with a pillow if he doesn’t let go of me from his tight embrace (I usually enlist 7 AM classes so that I won’t have late dismissal times). If ever he’s not hugging me by the time I wake up for school, I’d probably plant a soft kiss on his cheek and tell him. “I’d better get ready now.” And maybe during the weekends, I’ll greet him with a simple ‘good morning’ before tracing his fine face. IDK NO ONE KNOWS AHAHAHAAHAHAH. 

Do you mind introducing yourself? 

I’m Mai. Aries/INFJ. Cis-female, hetero. Asn. I’m 5'1, and not smol until you put me beside the bae. I’m usually rotating between red and pink hair, but since it washed out I currently have weird pudding hair. I’m in love with drawing, and I’m studying Illustration rn. I’m a bit of a perfectionist, also a little stubborn and (very) lazy. Also kinda aggressive. I’m a huge sucker for romantic shiz, and I cry so easily. I’m basically badpuns!Izuki with froyo, or Sakura Haruno

I honestly am so bad at introducing myself can I move on 

Can you give us a rundown on your fictional baes?

I have like probably around a hundred baes the last time I kept track of since I literally fall for all these dorks so easily but I guess the only one I care most about would be *coughcough* Kagami. 

Kagami Taiga. 

What’s the thing that makes you happiest about your fictional bae(s)? 

I honestly really love his blushes. I literally love it so much how he blushes at a lot of things, how even after getting together for so long he’d still blush whenever we see each other or share a small moment together. It’s hard not to love everything about Kagami, really. I’d be happiest when I see him happy. Kagami when he plays basketball, when he orders his fckin 20 burgers, when he loses Kuroko, when he makes breakfast, when he talks about his Himubro, when he fites Aomine and sometimes turn sexual, when he wears nothing, when he comes back home to me after a trip to America, when I come home to a sleeping Kagami with our son on his chest and his arm protectively wrapped around him, when I get thirsty for Kagami and we do the do, yeah okay you get the point. 

And oh, his eyebrows. 

Adorable. 

What is the thing you think would make them happiest about you? 

Kagami would love having company. Even after being so used to living alone, and basically just living life ‘alone’ this entire time, he’d realise that having company is actually really nice. He likes to watch little things of mine popping up in his apartment allover time. He’d love when we spend time with each other, having super romantic and cheesy dates (because I want to) or simply just lying on bed at home cuddling. Or how sometimes we’d go to get groceries together for dinner that night. He’d love the feeling of having someone watching him throughout a game and to be able to hug and kiss someone after winning a game. Or even losing a game. I just think he misses having someone to make memories with and share all these important little moments in his life with. Also not forgetting how he loves seeing me in his jersey/clothes, as much as I love wearing them hehe. And how he knows that even with 1000 other baes, I’m actually way too in love with him to ever leave him. 

What are little everyday things you wish you could do together? 

Cuddling is a must of course. To be waking up with him beside me is another thing as well. If he’s not busy with practice and like, I’m over at his house we could cook a meal together and just being in the kitchen could alone have many things happening y'know what I mean? *cough* If we’re bored at home we’d go out and play abit of basketball, he’ll teach me of course. Or if he doesn’t want to play basketball we could go for a walk. Small little kisses on the forehead, lips, cheeks, along the way, in which I’d probably have to get a ladder to climb or he could just bend.. a lot. When we’re back home, maybe we could have a nice bath together, nothing else. Just picture the amount of bubbles and blushies eheheh. He could fall asleep in it too if he was tired after a long day of practice. Oh, one thing. Since we’re both so aggressive we’d probably have fights on some days too and we’ll just make it up to each other afterwards with more cuddling. I think we’d also enjoy playing video games together, with me in his lap. Idk, there’s a lot of things we can do together actually and we just love having each other around. Then of course, we’d go to sleep together, alternating spooning positions each night. 

What are ways to make you feel loved and appreciated? 

I’d love to spend time with Kagami. I think I’ll be clingy and ask for his attention a lot. But then I believe Kagami would want mine too, so we’re even. Again, cuddling and loads of hugging would be really nice. I would also appreciate it a lot if Kagami could remember important dates (birthday, anniversary etc) and making the effort to celebrate it with me, but of course I won’t blame him much either if he doesn’t. If we’re not together or he’s in America, a morning/goodnight text or a few minutes of videocalling could easily make my day. Telling me about his day is nice too. I absolutely love having heart to heart talks, because the day he first let me in about the things happening in his life that no one else knew would be one of the days I’d always remember and hold dearly. Being alone with Kagami.. I just really love that. 

How would you greet your fave on an early morning? 

A few scenarios can go from here. 1) We’d both wake up at different timings, place a kiss on the other’s jawline and then going back to sleep in for almost half of the day. 2) If he wakes up first, he’d kiss my cheek and pull in the covers for me, then prepare breakfast. After which I’ll wake up and embrace the boyfriend from behind.. and maybe not letting go until he finishes cooking and whines for me to go wash up. 3) If I woke up first, I’d give the morning kiss and lay in bed until he wakes up. This way I get to enjoy the precious view of him snoring away.. and that little drool he has when he sleeps. Bonus is when he wakes up and realises I’d been staring the entire time and bam, the morning blush. 

Do you mind introducing yourself? //

Hello! I’m Sami. Cancer, INT/FP. Silky, straight dark brown hair, kind, old, golden brown eyes, chubby cheeked and pixie chinned with curves like woah and huge boobs. I wear glasses most of the time but switch them out for contacts sometimes.

Can you give us a rundown on your fictional baes? // My main baes are Murasakibara from KNB, Arakita from YowaPedal, Kuroo in Haikyuu!! (also a polyship with him and Kenma!) and Sousuke from Free!. I fall in love with fictional boys pretty easily though, so I have a lot of love for other characters in each show- Teppei and Aomine in KNB, Ushijima and Iwaizumi in Haikyuu!! and Shinkai, Imaizumi and Makishima in YowaPedal.

What’s the thing that makes you happiest about your fictional bae(s)? // Murasakibara: Everything. Everything about Murasakibara makes me happy, even his stubborn refusal to grow up or admit that he cares about basketball. Arakita: his passion and tenacity. He does his best to brush it off and presents a hard exterior to the world but he’s a guy with a lot of feelings who has been through a lot of disappointments, only to build himself up again. I really admire that. Kuroo: He makes me laugh, he’s a dork and he’s genuinely a good guy. But also a little shit and I like a spark of mischief in a good person. Sousuke: That smile. It’s like the sun coming out from behind a cloud. Teppei: his positivity and enjoyment of the little things.

What is the thing you think would make them happiest about you? // Murasakibara: My cooking. Ahaha. I’m a really good cook and I love cooking for an appreciative audience. Also that, despite being so short compared to him, I’m curvy and strong, so he wouldn’t feel oversized. Arakita: My empathy and ability to understand the true emotions and feelings behind his ornery, snarky actions and words. Kuroo: My wicked sense of humour. Sousuke: Dependability. He’s been left behind and is so afraid of it happening again but... I’m not going anywhere. Teppei: I’m responsible when I need to be, but also really enjoy having fun. My surprise when his tricksy side appears would probably be really amusing to him too. My endless capacity for love and affection.

What are little everyday things you wish you could do together? // Murasakibara: cuddling. Just... wrapping limbs around each other and refusing to let go. Sleeping in all day and eating snacks in bed because life is too short to care about crumbs in the sheets. Throw candy and make him catch it with his mouth. Arakita: take a walk in winter, making sure he’s bundled up nice and warm. Watch him ride. Substitute his Bepsi with Coke. Kuroo: just... chill. Hang in a park, a mall, an arcade, sometimes with Kenma in tow, enjoying each others company and indulging in just having a good time together. Kenma: flopping on the bed with his head in my lap or vice versa while we play our handhelds or I read a book. Sousuke: swim! Attempt not to be competitive. Fail. Race each other. Laugh at losing to him. Laugh at him on the rare occasion I win. Teppei: pet random cats and dogs on the street, have him play with my hair with his giant truckasaurus hands.

What are ways to make you feel loved and appreciated? // Physical affection is really important to me, little things like holding hands, having my hair played with, stroking my forehead and cuddles. I also really like food so making dinner for me or bringing me fresh tea when I forget my cup and it’s gone cold.

Do you mind introducing yourself? Sure! Hi, my name is Diana Gray. I’m a 5′4″ female with brown wavy hair just below my shoulders and hazel eyes that kind of change color (they’re mostly gray). I’m currently a sophomore in college, studying psychology and sociology. I’m hoping to go to law school. In my free time, I write, read (A LOT), and play videogames.

Can you give us a rundown on your fictional baes? Well, my main bae is Kuroko Tetsuya and to be honest, that’s pretty much it.

What’s the thing that makes you happiest about your fictional bae(s)? I love Kuroko’s determination and his quiet demeanor. I feel like he’s someone I can just sit with without even saying a word and we’d still be comfortable with each other. Since I’m also a very awkward person, he’d have to be able to put up with that, and since I believe he can, I appreciate that.

What is the thing you think would make them happiest about you? I mean, this is a hard question, but I feel like my determination and absolute inability to give up would make him happy. We also both like reading and stuff like that, so we’d be able to just be together without too much fuss.

What are little everyday things you wish you could do together? Reading, for sure, that’s not even a question. Walking Nigou would be fun too. Getting coffee and milkshakes would be nice. :)

What are ways to make you feel loved and appreciated? The highest compliment one can pay me is that I’m interesting. I much prefer being complimented on my mind rather than my body (because I’m not all that confident in it). I’m a sucker for cuddles and sweet kisses and quiet coffee or library dates. Just being with him would be enough.