#sd4me

A little while ago I promised you guys a post about my burning hatred for SA. I didn't think it could get worse but boy was I wrong. Ive finally decided to leave this God forsaken site!

Now, Im not going to deactivate my account completely because There is potential on this site. There ARE real SD on there. My problem with SA is not that its a fake site. My problem with this site is that there is no real effort on their part to put a stop to fake disgusting salt signing up and making accounts. The site has now turned into somewhat of  a regular dating site but much worse. Here cheap men get to pretend to be “rich” and WASTE OUR TIME. This has happened to me twice and i’m 100% over it. Twice may not seem like a lot to some but I’m not a very patient person, especially when it comes to cheap men. 

The only reason I am not completely deactivating my account is because I have hope that there will be some improvements in the future and just in case that does happen I don't want to have to go through setting up my account again. I worked very hard on my bio lol. 

upon rejoining the bowl I read a few posts about how terrible SA has become but I was determined to make it work for myself. That did not happen. Its more than just looks ladies. As a VISIBLY black women you are already at least 50% less likely to get any messages, now if you're a visibly black women thats not interested in Pay for play? That 50% turns into a a very low 30%. Which means that you have to work SO much harder on there to find a legit arrangement thats truly beneficial for YOU; because lets be honest, no matter what kind of arrangement you end up with the SD is the one really benefiting from it. I personally am not in this lifestyle just to make quick cash. I want long term financial stability. 

Ive had way more luck on tinder than I've had on SA and Im currently building up the nerve to freestyle in person. This is where the real money is at!!!! Most quality SD have either left SA by now due to the lack of quality SB on there or have never even heard of the site. They are too busy making money, eating at 5 star restaurants, on vacation, and partying at upscale bars. 

 If you are currently using SA and not sure if you should continue using it or not Don’t just take my advice. Please take the time and actually try it out for yourself. Put some real effort into your profile, take quality pictures, and send out some messages! But if that doesn't work out just know that it has nothing to do with how YOU look, its the site that is flawed. You are beautiful, confident, and you have what it takes to go out there and find you a wealthy man in REAL life!