#sauv

It really feels like fans heard the term and instead of using it for its actual meaning of “I am envious of how you are able to express your/this specific gender in ways I am not allowed or am incapable of for various reasons” instead of “I find you attractive but in a way I can’t describe without feeling weird so I’ll just claim it’s a gender thing.” Like I have gender envy for Ranboo the same way I have gender envy for the other male theatre kids at my high school, which is I wish I could present masculine the same way they can, but it really feels like everyone else is just complementing him in a way that they feel won’t make them sound weird.

And I know that’s not always the case, and that there are people who do use the term properly but there’s such a loud percentage that use the wrong term that it just always rubs me the wrong way.

^^^^^^^

Well hello to you too Kena

And in short, yes, yes I did