Fuck the Darkling, he has no interest in actually helping make the lives of Grisha better, so they aren't persecuted. He has been around and in power for at least a few hundred years (maybe a hundred idk) but instead of using that time to help reduce the stigma around Grisha and make them more accepted into Ravka, he forced children to become his soldiers (to the point that some even FLEE THE COUNTRY THROUGH THE FOLD to escape having to fight and die for him against their will) and created the Fold. Like he had at least a century to make the lives of Grisha better but instead, he did nothing but create the Fold and gain more power for himself. In what way is he "against the status quo" when he, as the most powerful Grisha (for at least 100 YEARS), has done NOTHING to make the Grisha less persecuted, judged and isolated from the rest of Ravka. This man even killed tons of fellow Grisha because they turned on him, how is that in any way making the Grisha want to come to him for help instead of just making them run from him in fear?
ALSO, how do you read what he did to Zoya and Genya and Alina and think he wants to help Grisha. Genya was SOLD to the King, to do things for him and the Darkling KNEW and let it be because this gave the Darkling power. The Darkling isn't someone who would have helped the Grisha, he was a goddamn dictator who upon finding out about Alina decided to expand his plans to take over the world and get himself more power. This man is a goddamn manipulator and I don't like him. I'm sure in the beginning, he had pure intentions to help his people but ultimate, power corrupts and the Darkling is no exception.
I feel like this post has become repetitive, sorry about that
Note: I'm actually not 100% sure he's been in power for 100 years or more years, but google says he's at least 400 so I feel like I'm right