This is a post I’ve wanted to make for a while. What with a lot of the discourse.
AGABpunk people with OCD, with intrusive thoughts about morality, you are not terrible people. You are not terrible people for feeling most connected to being transfem, or being transmasc, or being cis. Even if your assigned gender doesn’t “match” what is expected for those labels. You’re also not a terrible person for self-assigning an AGAB. Or for using neoAGABs. You have committed no crime and you don’t need to do “penance” or otherwise make up for your identity.
This goes for if you’re intersex. This goes for if you’re perisex. This goes for if you’re unsure if you’re intersex or perisex.
You don’t need to apologize. You don’t need to do anything to make up for the fact that you exist. Your existence is good.
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Heya. I'm Mod Damien (any pronouns). I took over this blog a while ago and didn't update the intro post up until now. I'm AGABless and AGABpunk. I also use neoAGABs as a way of obscuring whatever my "legal" AGAB is in situations where I have to give an AGAB for some reason.
If anyone else wants to become a mod, feel free to DM me!
This is a new our-experience blog for anyone who considers themselves AGABpunk! AGABpunk is a broad term that involves rejecting the concept of AGAB as it is currently used and reinventing it for oneself. It includes AFAB transfems, AMAB transmascs, transmascfems, AFAB cis men, AMAB cis women, those who self-assign their AGAB, those who use neoAGABs and xenoAGABs, AGABless people, and so much more! My header is the AGAB non-conforming flag because there is no AGABpunk flag, which is also why my icon is just the default icon.
You can submit experiences starting with “My AGABpunk experience is…”, but you can also start them with a specific identity under the AGABpunk umbrella, such as “My AMAB transmasc experience is…”, “My AFAB cis man experience is…”, “My S-AFAB experience is…”, “My ASAB (Assigned Sleepy At Birth) experience is…”, or “My AGABless experience is…”. You can also include another identity in your ask, like “My bisexual AGABpunk experience is…”, “My plural AFAB transfem experience is…”, or “My AGABless transmasc experience is…”
Rules and more under the read more.
Some ground rules:
1- Intersex people are pretty much the founders of the AGABpunk and AGAB non-conforming community, and continue to be some of its most important members. Intersexism is very much not welcome here. For a look at what casual intersexism in the queer community looks like, check out these posts:
(Note from 2025: This is an older post! You may have to give some of the points made here some extra wiggle room for Nuance.)
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Perisex (non-intersex) people please take time to work through this. I'd also appreciate if you reblogged, even if you don't have time to do
2- However, intersex people are not the only members of the AGABpunk community. There are many reasons that perisex people would feel connected to the community and the labels under it. Gatekeeping is not welcome here, whether it’s gatekeeping the AGABpunk label itself or any of the labels in its umbrella. Both intersex and perisex AGABpunk people are important.
3- Another big reason people identify as AGABpunk is plurality. For that reason, I want this blog to be a safe space for all plurals. I will block anti-endos. Attempts to start syscourse here will also be blocked. I want all plurals of all origins to feel safe here. And I cannot do that while welcoming anti-endos.
I am not accepting any bigotry or discourse around labels (unless it's to do with certain labels like 'transintersex').
A note on AFAB transfems and AMAB transmascs: In the past I was accused of supporting the “fetishization of trans people by cis people” by supporting these labels. I was also told that I clearly didn’t think trans women were real women and trans men were real men for supporting them. These are both wild conclusions to draw. Mostly because they’re not true. Why does the existence of AFAB transfems and AMAB transmascs imply either of those things? If you repeat these arguments, I will assume you don’t actually understand what you’re talking about.
A note on self-assignment, neoAGABs, and xenoAGABs: I was also told that these terms were making light of an oppressive system by claiming that you could just be whatever AGAB you want and that AGAB wasn’t about what your doctor wrote down. That they harm the ability of people to talk about the way people are oppressively categorized into a sex binary. Which I understand. I do think that some uses of the terms come off as insensitive. But I also think that there are good-faith ways of using them. That claiming that they are bad in all contexts is harmful. I will continue to assume good faith with them. But I understand the opposition.
Tagging some blogs to get this off the ground: @our-honeybee-transfem-experience, @coffeebean-transmasc-experience
I wish there was a headcanon blog specifically for AGABpunk identities. Like, I know some blogs are more than willing to do it, but we’re a small community who don’t request very many things so it’s hard to find other people’s headcanons. If there was a blog just for us that would be nice.
I could make it, but I don’t think I have the energy to run both of these blogs.
I just feel like the community needs more positivity what with the new increase in discourse.
(Was it always this bad and I didn’t notice? Or have things actually gotten worse?)
I want to tell people that I'm amab but the doctors assigned me female when I was born. I'm supposed to be amab, but not a guy or masc. Not a girl either though. So I'm neutral but if someone asks my agab, is it okay to say amab when that's what I feel I should be?
You have my full permission to tell people you were AMAB if they ask for your AGAB.
You also have my full permission to tell people, “Why do you want to know what my genitals looked like as a baby? Pervert.”
Asking for AGAB will never not be weird and is almost always irrelevant to the topic of conversation, as it neither tells people what your medical needs are, how exactly you were raised/your experiences growing up, or anything else about you.
So do what you want. And I will fight people on this.
