Hey I’m going throughout really rough time at the minute, I love your blog it’s really an escapism for me. You don’t have to write this is you don’t wanna I’m completely okay with it. Could you please do Romano with a fem s/o whose dad is an alcoholic, she’s really upset by this and it’s having a bad affect on her, how would Romano take care of his s/o and make her feel better ❤️❤️
💕Thank you so much bby and I hope things get better for you💕
He makes sure that if you are living with your father that you are 100% safe
He’ll buy you locks for your door, a little fridge so you don’t have to leave your room for water or food
And if it ever gets really bad then he’ll come and pick you up or at least sneak through your window so you aren’t alone
If you don’t live with your father however then he’s a little more at ease
Greatly recommends you go to an al-anon meeting (if you don’t know what that is it’s where friends and family of an alcoholic can go and talk- kinda like AA, but for the people affected by the alcoholic) if you don’t want to do that than maybe some therapy? He only recommends- he never pushes you to do something
He also never lets you be around your dad when he’s drunk
Like if your dad calls you and he’s drunk Lovino immediately tells him to call back later
Lovino also makes sure that he himself never drinks around you
While he does enjoy a good glass of wine he’ll cut that out immediately for you
He will also absolutely hate your dad for the things he put you through- so don’t expect him to act particularly sweet when your father is around, or when your father is talked about
Lovino is great at validating your feelings but he’s not great at helping you move past them
