hello, i want to apologize for our& actions towards and around you over the course of the past week. we were dismissive, callous, rude, and harmed you. it was wrong of us to speak to you with such irritation and disdain, it was wrong of us to not consider the impacts our actions would have on you, and it was wrong of us to behave so cynically in regards to your request. we are sorry for all of this, we are sorry for harming you. we do not expect forgiveness. going forward, we are going to make edits to our tagging system and put additional measures in place to try and prevent ourselfves from behaving like this again. it does not mitigate the harm we caused for you, though we hope that it will mean we will not act as we did towards you towards anyone else. thank you for your time, we hope that you are able to heal from our actions, and we truly wish you the best
Thank you for your apology. I wholly accept it.
I also want to apologize to you for reblogging Lament's post, as that's kind of what started the spiral more than anything. I also want to apologize for pointing out the post I felt bullied by. Even though it's perfectly fine I felt hurt by the post you reblogged, I shouldn't have pointed it out so specifically. I should have just kept it vague. I also apologize for reawakening the discourse on your blog, which likely resulted in a lot of your followers who held a grudge from the last time this went down attacking you as well.
I will say, and this is absolutely nothing against you, but I have trouble with forgiving people due to it being used as an abuse tactic. So to keep my paranoia from overwhelming me, I'm going to keep your archive blog blocked just a little bit longer (until my delusions die down). When my paranoia has mostly subsided, I'll probably unblock your RM blog and let you know, if that sounds acceptable to you.
I'm hesitant to forgive, but I don't think you were trying to be malicious. I'll try to work through on forgiving you. And also, you're not obligated to forgive me either, I was also wrong in this situation. The least I can do is apologize.
I hope you can heal as well. We both deserve that. So be sure to take care of yourself too. Get a nice meal/snack or a good drink and treat yourself, if you can. Do something that makes you happy today.