#riassadee

can you imagine if it was alex in rian’s place? what would we do / how would we react if alex broke things off with lisa and, only weeks later, he was posting about flying a girl 6 years younger than him out to see him on tour/going on road trips with her? rian isn’t exempt from criticism simply because he’s a “smol bean uwu he can do no harm my little drummer boy!!” like he’s a damn grown man. his actions are tasteless and thoughtless. and, given he’s in the public eye, he SHOULD face backlash following such a brisk, swift interchange into a new serious relationship. it’s not an ethically sound thing to do. imagine how cass must be feeling! if this happened with alex, he would be ripped to absolute shreds the second word got out. maybe that’s just because people are more susceptible to criticising alex since, lbr, he’s more famous and we believe he’s less likely to see our nasty comments. it’s why people tweet him rude shit all the time over anything. that doesn’t exist, for whatever reason, with rian. the double standard is at fault; we should criticise rian’s actions as much as we would for ANY person in this uncomfortable position. call people out for doing shitty, tasteless things. don’t keep quiet if it makes you uncomfortable just because you admire them. although, that being said, don’t @ rian OR dallas about it on social media. it’s fine to air your concerns to Twitter/tumblr, but the second you invade their privacy and directly address them about it, it takes the discomfort to a whole other level. sure, be upset w rian/the situation, but don’t tag them / tweet them. after all, it is their business; we are fans left to speculate after shady-ass occurrences on instagram, lmfao.

I just watched Cassadee’s Audition for The Voice again and my heart broke when i saw how happy Rian was for her.

I realise a lot of people are upset about the Riassadee break-up, since it's official now, so if anyone wants to talk about stuff or vent in my ask, you're welcome to. ❤️