#rememba

Y Entertainment se enorgullece en anunciar el lanzamiento del nuevo sencillo de su talentoso artista Ery: “Rememba”. Este cautivador tema, disponible a partir del viernes 4 de agosto, enciende la pasión por el reguetón y el perreo, transportando a los oyentes a inolvidables noches de fiesta y baile. “Rememba” es una oda al reguetón clásico, evocando la nostalgia de los momentos intensos de…

all that I've learned in the last year...

stoked for the direction my life is going in. I've been so much more dedicated to working out, getting my body where I want it to be, and generally taking care of myself more effectively and efficiently. I've gotten better at spending time with friends and family on a regular basis, and putting value on those instances over other more trivial things. I've figured out my career, making all the right steps so far to get there and created a new passion for art in a way I wouldn't have thought of a year ago. And I've done it without anyone by my side pretending to support and care about my struggles. It's almost easier doing these things alone when you consider that a majority of the time when you have someone "supportive" with you, they end up babying you into thinking you're completely fine, and you don't have to get your shit together RIGHT THEN AND THERE. Only in desolation did the right path light up. Only in the absence of any foreign safe place do you force yourself to create the proper personal one; not based on someone else's empty promises and seemingly kind words of reinforcement, but based on action. On physically doing something, and not have an emotional cushion to land on if you fail. You still may slip up from time to time, but you realize there's no room to truly fail anymore. No one is going to be there to make it better if you give up or royally fuck up. Suddenly, you just have to get it done right. For some strange reason, that necessity kind of squeezes out the right decisions from you. As nice as it may have been for a short while, I'm so thankful to be rid of what I was stuck in for so long. Almost 7 years of serious relationships, stagnating my ability to figure out what I needed for myself. I'm finally in a position where I feel comfortable alone. In a place where I'm excited with my direction into the future. No more crutches and empty promises to me from someone else, or from me to someone else. Just getting shit done, and getting it done right.

Can't lie though, I still wholeheartedly appreciate being alone and having my sense of self, but being human being I am... I can't help but get equally as excited for the next relationship. Not simply because I'll love them and enjoy being with them, but because now I can offer them a better version of me. The best version I've ever been, an ever-increasingly better version of myself. One that won't be overly-reliant, in a relationship filled with dependence. It's going to be constructive and purely synergistic.