#rehashing

Mercury Retrogrades aren't always about dodging people!

Sometimes its a chance to update where you stand, get things off your chest and be HONEST once and for all, wether it's an ex or not!!!!

Stop running from the clarity you need and the progress that can happen when you speak up for yourself! Often times the theme of Rehashing comes up during Retrograde periods and we tell each other not to entertain it! However, I'm encouraging you to evaluate more intricately if it's truly "rehashing" or if it is a progressive conversation that needs to happen.

Here's a couple examples of identifying rehashing vs. progressive dialogue : *Key : (RH) = rehashing / (PD) = progressive dialogue*

example #1 :

(RH) : both parties are repeating the same things without any new perspectives, information, opinions to offer (PD) : the same topics/themes may be discussed, but there is a change in perspective or opinion, more vulnerability, more information exposed

example #2 :

(RH) : you already know your truth/the reality of the situation but are still looking for some form of closure or "answers" (PD) : knowing you have moved on/ need to move on, but not holding a grudge or seeking "answers" or change if a discussion happens. Being able to stand in your truth & reality without leveraging it in the hopes of change. This is progressive because it reaffirms where you stand without you having to back down from what you've already experienced and know to be true.

Marvel: Wolverine reminding people he’s Canadian not American

And DC: Red Hood reminding people he died once

Abendgarten The house gave no real clue of its actual age aside from an immediate sense of ‘Very, very old’. The way the roof was littered with layers of moss and nestled into the mountain side beneath a canopy of Oak and Alder. How no amount of oil could mute the groaning of doors. The boards that ached with every step and the faucet’s drips splattering in time like a metronome.