Anonymously publish a gossip column.

oh to be a gentleman in the regency era standing awkwardly off to the side in the room

Conveniently forget to put your gloves back on before dancing the next set, in the hopes that the potential suitor you stand up with will touch your bare hands with his and find himself emotionally compromised by the contact.

Refuse to have children in order to spite your father.

Improve your mind with extensive reading.

Deprived of your usual walks, take a turn about the room instead.

Pretend to court to secure your own private agendas.

Sprain your ankle; be carried home by your dashing suitor.