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Many of us live out our live unconsciously by going through the movements without even thinking about it. It is because we are so used to going through the motions of the things we do routinely that we do not first stop to think about what we are actually doing or saying. Because we are not aware of these things, we may also not be aware of these things having negative impacts on our lives. To find out what impacts our lives negatively or positively, it is essential that we become aware of every person and thing we surround ourselves with. 

Have we ever realized how great everything would be if we would just change our perspective on it? Most of us do not even realize that it is our perspective that affects our mood and feelings toward someone or something and it is only up to us to change it. Changing our perspective does not necessarily mean that we no longer have our old perspective, but perhaps we decided to see this person or thing in another view. No perspective can be wrong because it is the way in which we, ourselves see. No one can see for us just as no one can see for me. We all are created uniquely so that we are able to observe and create unique things. 

The perspective that I had for working, for example, was not as positive as it should have been. I hated the thought of even thinking about going to work for someone else because I see it as depending on someone’s money for my slavery or either just doing things that I do not want to do for money. However, now, I see it as me being a disciplined individual who gets paid for doing good deeds. I also see it as me playing a level game so that I am challenged to do better and better every single day. That is the type of perspective that we all need to exude into our lives every single day.

Have you ever wondered if your friends are really for you? Other than your family, they are people you surround yourself with the most. The fact it even crossed your mind is a good enough reason to really think about it and find out. Is it possible that your friends or the people you spend time with the most are toxic? No one needs a toxic person in their life, not even the toxic person. One of the major problems in dealing with toxic people is being aware that they are toxic.

Here are 5 Signs To Be Aware of Toxic Friends:

5. They Blackmail You Emotionally

Have you ever told and of your friends no and they completely ignored you until you changed your mind about it? They could have asked for money, a favor, or even to go out to a social event. Whatever it was, they did not like your answer, so they ignored your whole existence.How did that make you feel? This is what you call Emotional Blackmail. This is toxic because it plays on your emotions. It makes you feel bad for saying no in some cases and it makes you feel like you are not being a good friend and being there for them. 

4. They Always Bring Up Your Flaws & Insecurities

As your friends, they are aware of all of your insecurities and flaws as you are aware with theirs. However, to constantly bring them up to remind you of what they see in you only pushes you further away. If your friends are going to be overly critical and judgmental of you, you do not need them; they are toxic. What is the point of having a friendship, when you are not able to be yourself because they are constantly pointing out all of the wrongs you are doing? 

3. They Switch Their Moods Randomly:

If you are constantly finding yourself nervous to communicate with them because you have to watch your words or actions, this is definitely a toxic person. These people change their moods for their convenience to get you to cater to their emotions. One minute they are happy and the next minute they are angry at you for a reason that you may not even know. The worst part about it is the fact that sometimes they will not even tell you. This is a manipulative trait that toxic people prey on the emotions of others with. Do not stay in this relationship! 

2. They Dishonor Your Trust and Confidentiality

Conversations with friends in confidentiality, should be kept in confidentiality. It does not matter who the other people are and nothing can be justified for sharing your business that was to be kept between you and them. Once your trust has been dishonored, there is no need for a relationship with them. These toxic people really do not care about you if they do not care about your trust. 

1. They Do Not Support You:

Your friends are always supposed to be happy for you and support you no matter what it is that you are doing. As long as you are proud of the results, so are they! Toxic friends, however will not be proud of you or with you. They blow it off as if it is not as serious or important. They never express enthusiasm or excitement about your accomplishments. They always doubt you and see the negative side of things. These are the friends that you must remove from your life if you want to succeed. You should be able to express yourself with the people you surround yourself with the most! Congratulating yourself and sharing your success with your friends and loved ones is not boasting. 

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As we all travel along our spiritual journey, it is very essential to reflect back on yourself. Reflect daily, weekly, monthly, even hourly to help you become more aware of your actions and surroundings. Speaking of surroundings, we must reflect and be conscious of people and things that surround us. 

Think about the people you spend your time with the most. Now think about the interactions between those people and yourself. Do you get much accomplished? Do you plan goals to accomplish? More importantly, are they supportive of you? 

If ANY of these answers were NO, you should begin to start spending time with those who you can answer YES about. The reason of this is because if you want to excel, you have to be with those who also want to excel. Spending time with those who are comfortable with being the same and their lifestyle. You are who you spend your most time with. 

Ask yourself if you are aware of the people that surround you? 

Ask yourself if you surround yourself with toxic people?

Toxic people are not always evil. These are the people who care about you so much that they overly protect you, people that try to convince you to put off your goals, or even people who try to belittle you. It is essential that you become aware of these type of people and ignore their intentions. Yes, they are good but their toxicity is not worth your goals.

Your ideal surroundings should be positive people who believe in themselves just as much as you believe in yourself. They should believe in you as much as you should believe in them. You need an IDEAL TEAM! 

Spend time with yourself and think about your ideal team that you want. Write down the type of characteristics your ideal team will have. Write down your ideal self and affirm your ideal life. “My ideal team IS ambitious.” “My ideal team IS inspirational.” “My ideal team IS prosperous.” “I AM prosperous.” I AM ambitious.” “I AM inspirational.” “I AM ambitious.” When you believe what you speak, you create it. 

“WHEN YOU  BELIEVE WHAT YOU SPEAK, YOU CREATE IT!”