also!Ā i am fairly sure that a lot of people do not realize how bad things in general still are from a gender dynamics perspective
I did not!Ā I dated a girl and I did not believe her about how systematically she was targeted for abuse and harassment.Ā It did not seem remotely plausible or reasonable or possible.Ā I didnāt think she was lying, but I thought she was interpreting much more into things than warranted.Ā Ā
... and then I walked around a corner and saw someone harassing her, he stopped when I arrived
.... and then someone stopped their convertible next to say a bro-compliment to me which treated her like she was a cowĀ
both of these happened in a short period of time.Ā in a very liberal area.Ā Iāll absolutely agree that living in a left-wing voting zone is by no means any sort of protection.Ā Ā
there is a class of people who experience absolutely horrific amounts of harassment.Ā there is a shockingly high number of men who participate in this harassment.Ā they tend to be quite good at not doing it while people who would object are around.Ā Ā
I think a lot of men read things written by women and think they meanĀ āiāll destroy your life for being slightly socially awkwardā when they actually meanĀ āI wish that dude would stop trying to force or coerce me to fuck himā orĀ āI donāt like it when people proposition me on the street and start escalating when I reject themāĀ















