#randomflurriez

So what you have to realize is that most humans hide their flaws really well. This other girl might seem like she’s better than you but the truth is that probably 98% of humans are some level of terrible and you’re a lot better than a lot of other people because some people, say, are murderers. See! You’re doing amazing.

but for real, you’re your own person and Deserve to be loved and respected by your own merit, and the only thing you can do to “improve” beyond your normal state of badassery is choose to let your desire to be a good human motivate you towards working hard on things you like, or learning all the things you can, or getting healthy and badass and able to fight things.

low bellied rough ladies

protect them

shallow boned birds with dark eyes

shelter them

spindly shes with eyes that glitter

send them to resting

wrap them in wide arms, round hips

feel their hunger, their caverns of aching

cleanse, fill, soothe,

i hear their screaming when i close my eyes

please, mothers

please--

protect them

well howdy there anon i am painfully single and a ball of compressed stress

so

HI YES ALWAYS

This for me is a component of my social anxiety; is feeling like I don’t measure up to the people around me who I feel like are more put together/confident/fit/beautiful/talented what have you. This is extremely unhealthy mental behavior, and I’m seeing someone (a therapist lady who’s the bomb) who’s helping me deal with that (and my plethora of additional issues lol). I would recommend seeing someone if your internal monologue is frequently or always negative. Even talking through what you’re telling yourself with someone who has an outside perspective can be freeing and extremely helpful. 

I don’t have an eye for color, but I like doodling! I would say the best tips for drawing are to practice as often as possible and to try to draw what /is/ not what you think the line is /supposed/ to look like.