20th March 2016. It was a Sunday. I remember because it was her birthday. Me and a buddy (whom we shall refer to as person X henceforth) were broke, all we could afford was fuel money to go see her and come back home.. that was the plotβ¦ Poverty aint good I tell youβ¦ So sisi haoβ¦ Mombasa Roadβ¦ We finally caught up with her in South C. She was so excited to see usβ¦ She checks up on person X. Then she gets to meβ¦ So she asks, βHow are you Caleb? (This one never calls me Slick.)β I say Iβm fine. She asks how βthe relationshipβ isβ¦ A question that was followed by awkward silence, which was broken by person X who came in and said, βNooooooo!!! What happened????β I gave some ambiguous answer. @kenyan_malkia looks at me and asks me, βDid she break your heart?β (She had a look that suggested if the answer was βyesβ she was gonna call her personal goons we go do a drive-by shooting) So I hesitated a bit to answer that question. Then she asks, βdid you break her heart?β More hesitationβ¦ So the person X says, βDonβt worry Slick, until you are ready to tell us just know we are on your side.β But then @kenyan_malkia looks at me and says, βCaleb me I donβt care whether she broke your heart or you are the one who broke her heart. You just now that I got your back and I ainβt leaving your sideββ¦. Then she asked us where we are taking her telling us coz all she wants is chicken ππππ I have never forgotten that statement though... Got me asking myself many questions, βHow many times do I give people the support they need first then inquire where they went wrong later?β βIs my commitment to people dependent on whether they mess up or not?β βAm I quick to pick sides when there is a falling out between two of my pals?β βDo I really have to pick sides?β βWhat about the person whose side ainβt picked? Who supports them?β βIs it worth burning some of the bridges coz of falling outs?β βDo my friends know that whether they mess up or not they can tell me and I wonβt bail?β "Do they know they can count on my rebuke but I still got them?β βWhen it* hit the fan am I still a fan?β Lovely new month my people! #Loyalty #Commitment #FoodWisdomAndGreatCompany #Quote10 #GeniusSurroundsMe














