20th March 2016. It was a Sunday. I remember because it was her birthday. Me and a buddy (whom we shall refer to as person X henceforth) were broke, all we could afford was fuel money to go see her and come back home.. that was the plotโฆ Poverty aint good I tell youโฆ So sisi haoโฆ Mombasa Roadโฆ We finally caught up with her in South C. She was so excited to see usโฆ She checks up on person X. Then she gets to meโฆ So she asks, โHow are you Caleb? (This one never calls me Slick.)โ I say Iโm fine. She asks how โthe relationshipโ isโฆ A question that was followed by awkward silence, which was broken by person X who came in and said, โNooooooo!!! What happened????โ I gave some ambiguous answer. @kenyan_malkia looks at me and asks me, โDid she break your heart?โ (She had a look that suggested if the answer was โyesโ she was gonna call her personal goons we go do a drive-by shooting) So I hesitated a bit to answer that question. Then she asks, โdid you break her heart?โ More hesitationโฆ So the person X says, โDonโt worry Slick, until you are ready to tell us just know we are on your side.โ But then @kenyan_malkia looks at me and says, โCaleb me I donโt care whether she broke your heart or you are the one who broke her heart. You just now that I got your back and I ainโt leaving your sideโโฆ. Then she asked us where we are taking her telling us coz all she wants is chicken ๐๐๐๐ I have never forgotten that statement though... Got me asking myself many questions, โHow many times do I give people the support they need first then inquire where they went wrong later?โ โIs my commitment to people dependent on whether they mess up or not?โ โAm I quick to pick sides when there is a falling out between two of my pals?โ โDo I really have to pick sides?โ โWhat about the person whose side ainโt picked? Who supports them?โ โIs it worth burning some of the bridges coz of falling outs?โ โDo my friends know that whether they mess up or not they can tell me and I wonโt bail?โ "Do they know they can count on my rebuke but I still got them?โ โWhen it* hit the fan am I still a fan?โ Lovely new month my people! #Loyalty #Commitment #FoodWisdomAndGreatCompany #Quote10 #GeniusSurroundsMe












