then i realized that EW freakiness eugh aka asexual (so now its she/they panromantic)

uhhhhh then i think i "realized" that oh i feel different on some days and then WABAM demiflux (same sexualities)

AND THEN i realized that the days i felt "different" (usually the days i would use she/they) weren't me feeling like a different gender, it was 🎉dysphoria🎉 so then i went by he/they for a while

then the whole thing i talked about in my last post happened and i realized that 1. i am also demiromantic (at the point that those events had happened we had been friends for a while)

and 2. the "gender blindness" of pansexuality didnt really apply to me?? like ive never had an actual crush on anyone except for willow at this point but at the same time, im not entirely opposed to dating someone of a different gender so i really dont know at this point?? the labels i use at this point usually fluctuate between omniromantic and biromantic

at some point in all of this i decided that i honestly don't really care about my pronouns all that much as long as its not she/her:]]

AND NOWWWW (insert drumroll)

all the labels i use and their descriptions 🎉🎉

asexual: a sexual orientation characterized by experiencing little to no sexual attraction to others

bisexual/biromantic: experiencing romantic attraction toward people of two or more genders

omnisexual/omniromantic: romantic orientation where a person is attracted to all genders, but gender plays an active role in their attraction

demiromantic: someone who only develops romantic feelings for another person after forming a deep, meaningful emotional connection with them

transgender (umbrella): an umbrella term for people whose internal sense of gender (their gender identity) does not match the sex they were assigned at birth

transmasculine: an umbrella term for people who were assigned female at birth (AFAB) but identify with or lean toward a masculine gender identity or expression

agender: having no gender identity or a completely neutral one

nonbinary: an umbrella term for gender identities that do not fit exclusively into the male or female categories

(and finally,) quoimasc: describes a person who is unsure about the exact nature of their gender, but is certain that it falls on the masculine spectrum