THIS IS NOT A CALLOUT POST . V am not posting this person's user and am simply saying "hey ! Don't fucking do this !"
(not vy post - this is a screenshot)
Hey guys can weird fucking people shut up forever actually . Why would you ever make hating people who have friends an identity ??? Please like . Fucking don't ? Don't hate people for literally just living their lives and doing absolutely nothing wrong .
Plus also this label is a very , VERY slippery slope into shit like "hatelesbian" or some shit like that , because it is literally just proudly hating people being in relationships . So like just fucking don't !
You can not want to have friends , you can never make friends at all , you can be repulsed at the thought of having friends , you can not want friendship to be mentioned around you , you can dislike ex-friends who have hurt you . The only thing that makes you a shitty person is if you outright hate on people for having friends and act like friendships are horrible and should never happen , especially if you turn your hatred of a harmless relationship into a fucking identity . This is not "aplatonic" , this is just hating people for being different than you and acting like it's a personal attack when people are in entirely harmless relationships and not bothering you at all . That is not being aplatonic or friendship-repulsed . That is just being homomisic but hating relationships you try to pass as "okay to hate" instead of hating relationships that you deem "acceptable" or ""not okay to hate" .
(will not be giving out the person's username - V have already reported them)
(comment from vy apl rosefriend because as V am not apl V do not feel qualified to make claims about this because V do not experience being apl : "shut up forever . if you don't want to have friends then don't . if you hate having friendships then don't have any , that's entirely your choice and i am the same way . but hating someone for having an identity and being in a type of relationship you dislike ???? um . it's giving homophobia tbh")
